“Janani and Ma Bhaktimaya from Singapore I a ccepted your Pada Puja I…”

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Janani and Ma Bhaktimaya from Singapore I a ccepted your Pada Puja I will talk to you during DTA

Blessings to San Jose for completing the 21 day meditation. Let San Jose and Bay area let you all have peaceful and blissful life.

Let us start the Satsang. Today morning itself I got lot o messages on Twitter. This TV9 Kannada is spreading rumors without any base. I wanted all of you to know 54 international media, US national newspapers and some more international media 54 of them published that the video is fake. Not like TV9 local channels. No. these local channels have their own vested interest. For their popularity, they destroy others popularity. They don’t care about truth or false, they care only about the TRP rates. See you see thousands of magic shows. Do you think people believe magic? No. they just go there to enjoy. same way TV9 which has well known reputation of black mail journalism and media mafia. So don’t bother. Just like knowing magic if false you go there for entertainment just for time pass. Same way TV9 people who watch these shows are only entertained. They also known. Otherwise why will they give prime time 9 to 9:30 pm. They know one thing whether good or bad, Nithyananda sells! After all I give so many boons to all of you. alright let them also get some prosperity. Don’t worry. We are International organization, the TV9 is local fellow. That fellow went to the US Telugu association meeting, this fellow dares to give abusive lecture on Satya Sai Baba. Because Baba devotees kept quiet, he has the audacity to come and touch me. I don’t have any problem with he saying anything about me, but if I keep quiet, he will touch even the next generation in future. So I will not keep quiet. In the court I am going for an injunction order.

We will start the Satsang now.

1) Dear Swamiji, How do we measure the ethical or moral climate of a company, and what is the dashboard? What kind of a forum or process could we create that would allow individuals to freely share and discuss ethical dilemmas? Kindly explain. - Frank Mueller, Germany

{Coroporate Concept}

Frank Mueller, first you need to understand, end of the life is being high achiever. Never ever you become high achiever when you are not built on a foundation of a higher ethics. Your ethical principles create the foundation on which your personality is built. Understand if the ethical foundations are not strong, even a small shake will send a tremor in you. the building will shake. I can earthquake, mind quake, emotional quakes. You become quack! I tell you my strength is nothing but my clear ethics. I am very clear about what I want, what I am going to offer to people, what I expect from people, what I expect from the cosmos, what I am going to offer to the cosmos. I am very clear experientially. I tell you every individual should understand his position not only related to the company and team, he should understand his position in broader context related to the society and the universe in which he is living. Pl und unless you are settled clearly about you with the broader contexts like society and universe you will be constantly shattered even by a small thought and small friction by your team. If you have identity and settled feeling only with your family and your team in your office, any small attack outside your office and team will shake you. pl und, let me give you an example. If you settle with an identity I am son of this person, father, wife, of this person------manager of this team, subordinate of this boss, supervisor of this band, if you settle with this identity it is not enough because a small shaking from the society is enough to give an earthquake to you. I can say a mind quake to you. Your whole personality will be shaken. Your identity needs to be settled related to the society also. means broader context. What am I with this society, what is my responsibility with my social responsibility, what am I in this universe’? what is my universal identity in the universal context?

Social, universal with this broader contexts when your identity becomes clear, you will perform well with your team. The identity which you carry with your team will look very small, simple, easy. I tell you your expanded identity makes the job of the smaller identity more easy. If you remember every night you are the center of the cosmos and you need to reclaim your freedom, waking up early morning and bringing that freedom in your body in the form of health will never look like a big job. You are center of the cosmos. Remembering your higher identity, bigger identity. I need to keep this body infused with the freedom of higher identity. What is the freedom of higher identity - health. When you infuse the higher identity in your body it is health, when you infuse the higher identity in your mind it is joy, when you infuse the higher identity in your consciousness it is enlightenment. Remembering your higher identity and infusing that into your day to day life. If you think you are a body you will never be able to wake up early morning. because the fight is between equal identities. Your laziness your physical identities both are having equal powers. Always fight with the lower level problems with the higher identity. Associate yourself with the higher identity. Remember the higher truths about you. When you remember your universal responsibility and social responsibility, completing your office responsibility becomes nothing. Out of freedom you will play this game. Then naturally the house responsibility becomes such a simple thing.

Frank, I tell you only when you believe in your higher identity when you understand your higher identity, you will be able to successfully make everybody understand their higher identity. Higher identity makes you understand the responsibility you are having are too small, too simple. This is exactly the mood with which the Aghoris function, simply do it. they establish themselves with the great truth Shivoham. I am Shiva. Then they ask will shiva have fear in staying in the cremation ground? No. Then, simply do it! Will shiva have hatred towards dead? Then simply do it! Establishing yourself in higher identity makes you feel responsible for ethics. Responsible ethics is the only ethics which will survive and keep you alive. Enforced ethics never keeps you alive. Yesterday after the morning Satsang where I was telling everything is business. Understand this father, mother, brother, sister everything is business. After the Satsang one disciple came to me running I understand Swamiji everything is business father, mother, sister. I said stop. Even this is business. Even between us this is business. I am very clear what I want from you. I want you to be enlightened and being here as a big support taking up responsibility around me. only as long as you are expanding in that direction, I am going to be sitting around you. when that is not happening, I am going to do my job with somebody else. If you understand that his business is your business also, then a unique love happens between you and me which is eternal maha bahaava.

Understanding my business is your business you attain atonement, you experience beautiful love that is maha bhaava. Each one has their business with you. Your lover has business with your beauty, your look, your partner has business with your money, your employer has business with your degree, certificate. I have business with your consciousness. Each one looks at your identity in certain angle. Your lover who wants to physically enjoy you, is going to look at how you look and makes decisions based on that. that is his business. Person who is employing you is going to look at your education, your productivity. Your parents business is to look at how much you will support about their ideas about life, society or society’s ideas about them. each one is busy with their business. When you understand my business is your business, suddenly love which can never be shaken by anybody comes up. That is Maha bhaava. My business doe s not bother what is your education, money, how you look, social back ground. That is why my decisions are not based on that. but based on your consciousness. What you want, what is you. When I say you, the very sound you understand what I mean by you – YOU the real YOU.

Frank understand what business cosmos wants to do with you. Understand what business society wants to do with you, what business your company wants to do with you, what business your family wants to do with you. I tell you when you understand the every level is business, the weak sentiments will be forgotten. Weak sentiments will be destroyed. You will be straight. You are a real Aghori. Aghori is a person who lives with the skull without the flesh. All your weak sentiments are the flesh, just live with the skull. No question of weak sentiments. Higher identity, higher responsibility makes your lower responsibility easy. Whenever a responsibility is easy you will not worry about following the ethics. You will say let me be ethical nothing wrong. Only in complicating situation when you are in crisis you will compromise with ethics. Understand there is no crisis in the world. Even if the whole world is in crisis, you are not in crisis. Because it will dissolve into you and come out as you.

You should do this Aghori practice. In the night time, lie down under the sky and keep your eyes mildly or half closed like Dakshinamurthi how he is sitting. Look at the sky and remember now this whole thing is going to collapse into you. whatever you see the whole thing is going to collapse into you including you. Tomorrow all of it will come out of you. how it is collapsing into me? this is one of the powerful Aghori process. Do it for 21 days. Lie down in a place where you can see the sky, keep your eyes half open, half closed means mildly open. Remember this whole is going to disappear into my inner space, atma, consciousness. How is it going to dissolve into me and how is it going to come out of me. In ten days you will catch the exact moment where this solid is becoming semi solid liquid. If you catch that moment, you will not have any fear even if this whole world is in crisis. I tell you if there is a huge Tsunami or any natural calamity, not even one moment I will be shaken. Please understand I am making this statement very responsibly because I have seen how this whole universe collapses into my inner space and come out it. this solid becoming liquid and liquid becoming steam I have caught every step of that transition with awareness. Unfortunately, you see it as solid and next day again you see it as solid. Because of that you forget the transition which happens every day from solid to semi solid, from semi solid to liquid, from liquid to steam. Every night this happens. If you catch this experience. Every night this melting down happens! Try this Aghori process. This is what usually Aghoris do lying in the cremation ground in the nights. They actually bury their body with their head so that there is no movement and stare into the sky. Don’t do all that. Just put a blanket over you, don’t move, with eyes half open look at the sky. First day you may fall asleep. 2, 3 days you may fall asleep. But again and again with awareness watch. Within ten days you will catch how the solid universe which you see around you is melting into semi solid, and how that semi solid is melting into liquid. Frank, unless you understand your position with cosmos and cosmos’s business with you relax from the fears which are constantly attacking you. I tell you – you cannot establish a moral ethic to a company. You may think I am asking for corporate problem, you are giving enlightenment as solution.

I tell you all problems are rooted only in one problem. Because problem is one so solution is one. Problems are not one as you think, so solution cannot be many as you think; Catching the universe when it is melting down. That is the sacred secret. Catch the universe when it melts down. All the fears, all the greed, all the suffering will just disappear! Every person in the corporate field should catch when the universe melts then you will never suffer when the market melts. Catch when the universe melts, you will never suffer when the market melts. Till you catch the universe melting, you will suffer even if the market is not melting in the fear that the market is melting.

There is a question – when I am doing this process, If I feel sleepy can I sleep there or do I need to go inside and sleep. Sleep under the sky itself it is okay. See nobody thinks they will really catch the melting. Now itself you are clear you will be sleeping after ten minutes! ☺ Actually if you catch the melting, you will be in samadhi. But we know for sure these all techniques are only for Swamiji. Let us be little compassionate towards Swamiji and listen to him. you are so clear. Your statement itself shows your stand. You are clear yes he is teaching and that is true for him. I am clear I am going to sleep. Nothing can move me. There are 2, 3 people who will come and say they experienced. These are for them I am very clear because he said I have to stare at the sky today, I will stare. But I know I feel sleepy. After ten minutes of staring, snoring! I will be back again tomorrow.

My whole spirit has gone! Half hour with so much of patience. In the Matrix movie they show one scene as it this whole thing is melting like mercury. That guy puts his hand in and is able to take it out. Exactly like that it will happen. The whole thing will melt and you will be able to put your hand in. then it will collapse. Then don’t ask what is behind. Behind there is nothing. Even the concept what is behind will collapse. It will slowly start melting into semi solid form, then into liquid form, then into steam form. By that time you will fall into samadhi. Next day you will see that steam becoming liquid, the liquid turning into semi solid and the semi solid will become solid. If this experience is going to happen why will you bother if you are sleeping inside or outside? You are so sure no experience will happen with you. It is like a doctor says – eat 2 idli in the morning, on chapathi in the afternoon and one dosa in the night. You ask - all this should I eat before eating or after eating? ☺This exact question should I sleep outside or inside.

2) Dear Swamiji, I have read quite a bit on reincarnation theories, but everything seems to be more a matter of conjecture and hypothesis than science. Can you throw some light on the scientific basis of reincarnation? – Ashish Ballal,

I think I will answer this question in the Esoteric evening series. Morning I will answer more of the spiritual truths for the whole society. Evening I will answer more of this esoteric things – past birth, time shaft, aa these esoteric things I will address in the evenings. In the mornings I will address more like health, relationship problems, mental health, leadership concepts.

{New Gen Youth Concepts}

3) Is there such a thing as love at first sight? – uma, Tiruppur

Uma, you are waiting to fall for somebody or waiting for somebody to fall. Then naturally the moment you see – the first sight happens you fall. I don’t even want to say love at first sight. It is love before even the first sight happens. it is like you watched a horror movie for 2 ½ hours alone. You are walking back home all alone. On the way a small sound is enough to make you shiver or do one, 2, 3. Together. You may ask what is three. One plus tow together is three! How when you are filled with thoughts of horror movie a small leaf shaking is enough for you to shiver. When you are empty within, hollow within, begging for attention, poor inside, love at first sight happens. und whenever love at first sight happens, the person is very poor in his inner space. Do not ever believe this love at first sight. When it comes to Guru disciple relationship, believe only love at first sight because you should be craving enough that the moment you see him you fall in love. If that is not there, please understand he is not your Guru please move on. Only when you have intense craving, the moment you see him you know yes this the one I am looking for whole life. If the love at first sight happens in the spiritual realm you are immensely rich in your inner space. Seeking is inner richness. Attention seeking is inner poverty. If you are falling for love at first sight you are empty within. You are waiting for a boy to smile, for a girl to smile and you fall. All the fellows who fall for love at first sight have very weak inner space. When you connect with a Guru by the first sight you have a very strong inner space, depth. That strong seeking. Understand both are completely opposite. Uma, there is something called love at first sight. It means the moment you see the ditch you fall into it. you are waiting for the ditch so long and you are fantasizing about that smell so long. How will it feel? Let me roll on that dir. Love at first sight means falling into the ditch the moment you see it. see sometimes when you stand from a tall building and see from the parapet wall or balcony, the depth invites you to fall. You will feel as if somebody is pulling you to jump. Every man sees through the balcony at least has one thought for a moment should I jump or will I fall? That thought is the invitation from the depth, invitation from the ground. Same way all love at 1st sight is you honoring the invitation from the ditch. When you honor the invitation from the depth what happens to you only happens when you honor the invitation of love at first sight. If you are falling for love at first sight you need a special disorder. As per the Yogic psychololgy it is a mental disorder. You need to get out of the problem. There is such a thing love at first sight but it is a mental disorder. If somebody tells you I fell for love at first sight, visualize a man standing with torn clothes, looking up with twisted eyes and having two garbage bags in the bag and dirty trouser which is not covering the parts it has to cover, standing there and saying oh I got it, I got it, I got it. if you see a man standing like this in the dark night in front of you all alone, what will you do? Do the same thing if someone comes and tells you I am in love with you at first sight!

4) My boyfriend and I are planning to live in together before marriage. Are there reasons we \\ shouldn’t? – Shivani, UK. Shivani you should. I know no one will expect this reply from me. Shivani I tell you at least one year you should live together before marriage. I am breaking some of the customs by Manu. Knowingly with the responsibility I am the modern day smrithikaara. I have come not just to make few spiritual truths and techniques alive. I have come to give the modern day way of life. As a modern day smrithikaara with the rep of modern day smrithikaara I tell you live at least one year before marriage together. You need to see completely all faces, all seasons of the other person. Because marriage is not a joke. Just few days before in Bharat so many divorce laws are passé by the board of ministers they made the laws very easy. Why because the courts are over flowing with divorce cases. I am afraid in future the very family system may collapse. People are losing faith in the very family system. That is why I am courageously making amendments in manu smrithi, manu’s way of life. So many things have changed. So many ideas, fantasies, visualizations are put inside you from the young age and it is almost becoming impossible for any man or woman to match layers and layers of fantasy you build from the young age. Once you break one marriage, you will lose trust completely in the very marriage system. Not only that the injury that happens to your personality become irrepairable. Somehow still man has such a strong concept about marriage, the moment he or she commits and the injury that happens becomes irrepairable. Never gets healed. The wound becomes so strong. People get scared of human beings. I know many people after divorce are frightened about men itself, women itself. They are frightened about people. They are becoming more and more comfortable with same gender relationships. I am not for or against same gender relationships. I am not going to commit on that subject now. But continuously moving into the same gender relationship destabilizes the very social setup, same gender relationship destabilizes the very social fabric. I tell you one year living together, see all the moods, all the seasons of the other person. how only when a house sees all the seasons and withstands and is ready to occupy, same way relationship which sees all seasons should be converted into commitment. Relationship is also a tapas. Before you take sanyas you prepare yourself with tapas. Before you take up marriage, you should prepare yourself for one year. Sanyas means what deciding to sacrifice for your own enlightenment. Relationship, marriage means what? Deciding to sacrifice for the other person’s shopping needs ☺ Just like for Sanyas how you need tapas, I think you need at least one year before converting relationship into marriage. I completely accept and encourage, inspire both of you guys to live together for one year and work with the spiritual truths of understanding each other. Converting the relationship into commitment so that you don’t get hurt about human beings. See there are some people who have come to me for Sanyas because they have taken the decision of Sanyas because of the hurt they are carrying from their past relationships. Not because they love Sanyas, but because they hate relationships. This will never be successful. You just enjoy positively, intensely the presence of master in your life, happening of master in your life only that can make sanyas successful not hatred towards relationships. The positive, affirmative right understanding only makes any rich thing happen in your life. I tell you this one year of living together will enrich you. it will make you understand is this person the right person for me to spend rest of my life. See if you are spending time only together only in weekends you will be able to answer only the one question is this person worthy of sharing my kids over weekends after divorce. Only when you live together, you will get answer to the question is this man the right person for me to spend the rest of my life restfully. So I tell you before making any big commitments like converting relationship into marriage, I will encourage one year living together as a tapas. 5) I often see women asking the question: How can I show my husband I love him? Typical responses seem to include things like sending him love notes and making his lunch. Some people will suggest getting in shape and dressing well for him (great ways to make him feel good, actually!). – clara, new jersey Clara don’t you see how shallow we human beings have become? Sending him love notes. I remember reading a story. One guy goes to a shop where the cards are sold. He sees a card very beautiful – you are the one and only one in my love. Thank you for being the one and only one in my life. He reads the card and tells the seller give me 20 of that! you can send any number of notes for any number of people. You can make lunch or even dinner for any number of people. It is so unfortunate the relationship has become so shallow, so much of doubt distrust! Clara relationship has nothing to do with sending a love note, making his lunch. Forget about making his lunch, it has nothing to do with making love. It is something beyond making love or lunch. It is tremendous understanding. It is not even spending time together. It has nothing to do with getting in shape and dressing well. Many men suspect you suddenly if you get into shape and dressing well. What happened to you? you are having a new boss? Getting in shape and dressing well only creates doubt and suspicion in men. There are so many things that need to be understood in this question. First bring some common interests. May be it can start with things like art, politics, music, dance, working out, gyming together. Some common interests. Then raise that common interest to the basic understandings of life. When the common interest is basic understandings of life, means spiritual questions, spiritual quest only then the true relationship starts happening. Till then this word looks so shallow! Sending a love note, making lunch. I tell you this should not strengthen your love. If it strength your love, it is not just shallow, but both of you are sick with attention need syndrome. You need psychiatric help form a psychiatric who does not need help for himself. Clara don’t you see all this is so superficial. How long you will be writing notes, how long you will make lunch, how long you will get into shape and dress well? Then what about the old age. I tell you bring common interest and raise the common interest into spiritual depth. That is the only way you will have safe, happy, blissful relationship in old age. Anything else that forms basis of your relationship will be very shallow. Let your relationship be completely ripened. Strong, based on friendliness and understanding. 6) How much do I tell my spouse or fiancee about my wild past? realizing that honesty and transparency are important in any relationship, but there are times when it can be harmful too "let it all hang out." I don't want to keep secrets, but neither do I want to cause hurt or damage. Where do I draw the line? – michelle, texas

Michelle, first thing your basic thought the transparency and honesty is imp in any relationship is wrong. Many men and women do not want to know the other person’s wild past. First understand if your fiancé or spouse wants to know about your wild past. Ask him or her first if they want to know. Can they digest it? if they want to know they may be enjoying your wild past or pornography. Your wild past revelation only has pornographic effect. Be very clear neither he or she wants to know your past nor you want to know their past. Maybe this very basis, the very statement honesty ….is wrong in modern day in many relationships. Ask very clearly if other person wants to know and tell honestly if you want to know or not most of the people do not want to know. Because many of them know if I come to know, I may not be able to accept this person. I may lose all my romance to accept this person. Only to give enlightenment you need to know all past engrams to raise the person. I know for sure Michelle you are not going to give enlightenment to your spouse and he also….so when enlightenment is not involved, the other person does not need to know your whole past. I tell you even you don’t know your whole past, even you fall into guilt with your past. What is your past? Many of the things you dealt with in the past are with your low intelligence. now they are not even your past because you are not the same person. Then why do you want to repeat the pornographic story to your spouse. I know many people enjoy their own pornographic story.

One 90 year old man runs here, there and screams one young lady filed a rape charge against me. somebody asked why are you telling that to everyone. The old man has no answer, but started blushing! He feels that as a pride. Going around and telling some stories about himself. Showing he had a wild past becomes pride. You are rally dishonest only when you talk about your wild past, you add things which did not happen. When you see the other person is enjoying your wild past, you add more back stories and more wild shots. Somebody asked what is the difference between Government bonds and men? The other person replied Government bonds get matured at some time. Men never get matured. When they try to tell their wild past, don’t think they are honest. When they start telling and you are listening, if you are interested then there is …..You need to sit and understand if the person is really interested in listening to you. Don’t push it down the other person’s throat in the name of honesty and transparency. Don bore him with your so called honesty and transparency. Who cares what you did? Michelle first thing you need is a NSP life bliss level II program to understand what you are carrying as past is not even your past. It is the past of your immature version of you. after every year a matured version of you is taking birth. the past of your immature version is not your past. So understand when it is not even your past, what is there to talk about that to your fiancée or spouse? Actually if you are really honest and transparent you will not talk about your immature past as your past and tell it to your spouse and fiancé. If you are really transparent tell him how immature you were at that time and how mature you are now. You should be mature enough to tell transparently now how much you are mature and he should be able to see that. If not, Michelle escape! You are in Texas, escape into Mexico. You know how many thousand s of tunnels are there to escape to Mexico from Texas ☺

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I bless you all who are sitting with us at this moment around the world in 1170 places through eNtv, in 25 places through 2 way Video conferencing, in 286 cities, in 26 countries! Let you all achieve, experience, live, express, radiate and share and explode the eternal bliss, Nithyananda. Thank you!