“Blessings to all the Addayar youth team.”

I welcome you all with my love and respects! I welcome all the devotees, disciples, Samajis, Satsangis sitting with around the world at this moment in 570 places through eNtv, 34 places 2 way Nayana Deeksha, in 174 cities, in 24 countries!

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Blessings to all the Addayar youth team. Blessings for all the projects you are taking up. I saw all the photographs of your activities. Blessings! So today I have a news for you. Yesterday I started Tweeting ☺ Just yesterday I started. I don’t know what happened. Yesterday itself more than 150 tweets. And more than 300 followers. I think somebody is impersonating and tweeting. Today we will check that. I assure I will continue to be on tweet. It is almost like my Rudraksha. Early morning when I wake up I am asking come on, where is my tweeter. God around almost 30 boons I gave yesterday in the tweeter. And one prediction I made. Just I wanted to – people were asking prove that it is you. I just consciously scanned and saw that there is going to be a huge earthquake in the Mexico area in 21 minutes. It happened in Chilie. I said in Mexico also it will happen. It happened in Mexico. Around 10 social subjects I commented. Like my opinion on the Srilankan Tamils, Maoist kidnappings. From now onwards, I will give my responses on all the social and political happenings also. I will give my comments and enlightened insights on social political happenings. the outer world insights also. I feel there are some tweets are not mine. Yesterday somebody has impersonated. Let me see and we will clear it. I will continue to make myself available through tweeter. I tell you really it is addictive. Because I am seeing from all over the world people are bombarding me with messages, questions, boons. What all they are asking? But I can say just my tweets and the messages devotees tweet back, my boons and within few minutes they saying it happened, this itself can become a separate book I think. Yes I will continue my morning satsang now. I am able to see Studio city California now. Some more cities have joined.

1) How to forget ex-boy friend?

I tell you unless you get the man within, you cannot forget your ex-boy friend. Don’t think 3.5 billion men are there, at least 2.5 billion are men to choose from, you can choose from any one, why do you want to hold on to one rotten apple. These are all foolish misguidance. Don’t be misguided. I tell you – unless you find the man inside you and unless the woman finds the man inside her, you cannot rest in peace. You cannot forget your x or y or z. till then the more you try to forget, the more you will remember. One fellow went to a Guruji asking can I have some kundalini awakening. that poor Guruji does not know anything except little Ayurveda gives him a Kundalini Kashaayam and tells drinks this and it will happen but you will have to drink without thinking of the monkey. The fellow asks if I remember what should I do? The Guruji says very simple, just take bath. The fellow sits and picks up the bottle and naturally remembers the monkey. Then he runs to the bathroom, takes bath, comes back, picks the bottle, again he remembers oh what is that I am not supposed to remember – monkey. Again he runs to take bath. And this repeats. In 2 hours he runs from bathroom to room literally like a monkey. In half a day he is hallucinating of monkey everywhere. He runs to the Guru…

If you are misguided by these kind of foolish ideas this is where you lead. I tell you in the world there may be 3.5 billion men and 2.5 billion youth whatever but unless you find the man inside. Means unless you experience the completion inside. Please understand each man carries certain feminine principles and energy inside and each woman carries certain masculine principles and energy inside. Only when the energies are met and merged fulfillment happens. only then you can forget your x, y chromosomes and relax in z. Z means zest. Understand. How many men you may change externally, you will not find a solution. Changing external men or women and trying to find a solution is a Western method. Once in 3 months house, car and husband if you don’t change, you are not updated. How long this can go on? I tell you oh next gen, don’t listen to these foolish advices, don’t be misguided. Don’t think changing outside is anyway going to bring any solution. Look in. the solution is within. Find the source of your fantasies. Find the root. Why your boy friend has become ex-boy friend because he is not fitting with your inner idea of boy friend. In your inner most fantasies, secret corners of your mind. The fantasy, the idea, the visualization you carry about your boy friend did not fit with your boy friend. That is why you call it as x. unless you work with the fantasy and learn to accept and settle down with reality, you will not relax in any moment. You may forget your ex-boyfriend and catch another one boyfriend. But again you will have to choose another boyfriend. This is the way the western society lost stability. 90% of problems Of Western society is just because there is no stability in their social system. Stable family can solve millions of our problems. I don’t know how these foolish psychiatrists and low minded so called leaders give this kind of advice to you – catch another one, choose another one, you can forget the ex. What kind of advice? I tell you look in, go to the root of fantasy. Unless you correct the fantasy and accept the real person in your life, you are never going to settle down. As long as the fantasy is there as it is, how many person you may change you may change once in 3 months, once in a month or once a week, you will not experience peace. You will only have ex, ex, ex that’s all.

2) How to curb desire to watch porn?

This is one of the worst problem modern youth is facing. No pranayama can help you. no Yoga or meditation can help you unless you understand the root of this desire. Understand first what is porn? It is nothing but trying to have something impossible. Means you have two hands but suddenly trying to have four hands. I wanted to stop with hands! It is nothing but trying to be impractical. Please understand porn takes away your real love, takes way lust, takes away passion in life. You think pornography increases your passion. No. it adds too much of fantasy, makes real life dull. Man who watches porn will always be in depression and carrying a guilt about his abilities. No buffalo, no bull, no dog, no donkey thinks about his performance. It is only human beings who suffer with this great disease of performance contributed by porn. I tell you porn does not add love, lust, passion to your life. It only takes away. Whether you are man or woman. Porn takes away reality from you. I have some of the statistics here. 2.5 billion emails per day which are pornographic are shared all over the world. 68 million a day are search engine related requests for porn. Alright I don’t even want to see this. Unfortunately human beings don’t understand the way porn works on you. it does not enrich you, it makes you poor. You don’t understand because you think it is enriching you, you are taking it. see if you know there is something which is poisonous for you but will kill you slowly but surely will you eat that? no. because you think it enriches you – you go behind it. Porn is like that because you think it enriches you – you go for that. The real love or lust you carry in your body, if you live in your regular life you will at least exhaust that and you will be free from it, you will be liberated, you will go beyond it. There is no animal than human being who want to indulge in sex till death. Only human beings are cursed. For every animal there is a season. Body reproduces and settles down. In human life there is no settling period don’t you see? There is no settling period. There is no end because of the new component introduced in your life called mind. Mind can store the pictures even ordinary pictures it can store. What about porn? I tell you humanity without pornography will be violence free. When you are infused with so much of passionate desire and you cannot live it up as you see in the visuals through your body the whole passion gets converted into violence and gets stored in your body. passion gets recorded as violence in your body. Humanity suffers with so much of violence whether it is domestic or country. Both violences are just because of porn. Understand it is going to take away your joy, your love, your real life. It is going to make you plastic, pseudo. Only if you have this insight and understanding you will be able to get out of this desire to watch porn. Unless you understand no pranayama can help. No other technique can help. When porn is added to your mind and body, it leaves the natural realms and destroys the reality of your life. Life becomes hell and neither you will be satisfied with one man or one woman in your life. Then naturally you have to make your boyfriend into ex-boyfriend and go to some psychiatrists and Gurujis for advice. It is very difficult for you to understand the reality as reality. Once the porn gets mixed in your system, you will not have respect for the real person in your life. Your lust will always be having the guilt of impossibility. Your desire will always have the un-fulfillment before even it starts. A continuous hangover of anger guilt of inability look in. you will see how this destroys your beautiful life. Human beings should take birth and grow with his natural flow without the interference of the mind, should be physically mature at the age of 21 and next 14 years should do the job of reproducing and by 35, from 21 to 35 should be his Grihasta life. After that he should be out of physical relationships. He should be ripe and become Vanaprasthi and by next 14 years he should be Sanyasi. First 3 cycles Brahmacharya means till 21 years – 7, 7, 7. 2nd two cycles grihastha till 35, next two cycles Vanaprastha means till 49, by 50 he should be Sanyasi. This is a beautiful flowering for a natural ordinary human beings. But unfortunately when the porn component comes inside even if you are sitting in the wheel chair, you cannot keep quiet. It is so unfortunate. I wanted to tell all the youth, next gen, please listen the worst suffering you can have in your life is having the mind which is still jumping when the body is not able to jump. If you understand, understand what I am saying. In the old age if your body is not jumping and your mind is not able to do anything that is hell. It happens just because of pornography. If you want hell in your old age, you can add porn to your body. like how if you add alcohol and smoking you will add physical disease in your old age, if you want mental ill health, you can add porn. I am not teaching morality or spirituality, I am just telling you plane health facts. Porn will make you sick mentally physically in both ways. It makes you sick and takes away joy of the real person in your life. The other day I was reading article how people have virtual farms means they get egg, then hen, then hatch and then get hens, etc. the whole thing in face book and they bye and sell. God! What is happening. Castle in the air. Building the identity based on just ideas, emptiness. And it seems you even get a message your fishes are dying, please come and feed them. Games, and by and by it becomes reality! I tell you naturally human beings need something extra to cope up with reality. You cannot build your identity and personality just based on reality. You need something extra. Have deities for your entertainment which will take you to enlightenment. That is way our ancestors said have atma linga a small deity to yourself – dress it up, clean, bathe, live with that deity. That is thousands of times better than your virtual farms. Here at least you are lead to higher concepts and higher life. Do you know the latest fast spreading disorder is face book syndrome. Youngsters when they are not allowed to use Facebook for 24 hours, they get nervous breakdown, they start shivering. The only Kriya for Facebook is twitter/srinithyananda ☺ 350 million people are suffering from Facebook addiction disorder. God! The only cure is go to twitter/srinithyananda. Do not bring too much of fantasies into your real life. Do not infuse too much of fantasies into your real life. Do you know millions of South Africans are suffering with this facebook syndrome, face book addiction disorder. That is what the other day somebody was telling me in Bharatn villages in many of the houses we don’t have washrooms, but we have 2 cell phones, 2 TV, 2 mixer and grinder.

3) I am a gay. Is it wrong?

All human beings go through four stages. Please understand. One – enjoying your own body – when you are a child you put your own thumb in the mouth. Sometimes you even lift your leg and put the thumb in the mouth. Playing with your own body. that is called auto sex. You enjoy your own body. Then you try to explore the same gender – your friends, brothers because taking direct jump to the opposite sex is too much. This period trying to explore your same gender that period only you call it as gay. Then you start exploring the opposite gender. That is hetero sex. When you experience the whole cosmos with you, that is Brahmacharya ultimate enlightenment. What RamaKrishna says . He says I felt alive with every flower, tree, whole. That happens as a fourth stage. These are the four petals of the Muladhara chakra. Understand I don’t want to say anything is right or wrong. But I want to say these are the four different stages of life. Naturally you need to evolve to the last stage. The ultimate stage enlightenment, Brahmacharya. Whether you go through these 3 stages and evolve or without going through these three jump into the Bramacharya is up to you.

You can see the Muladhara chakra. These are the four petals of the Muladhara Chakra. One is enjoying you own body, 2nd enjoying same gender, 3rd opposite gender, 4th entire cosmos. There is nothing higher or lower. Not reaching the fourth being stuck in any other 3 is wrong, if you can reach the fourth all three are right. If it can lead you to the 4ht all three are okay. If it does not allow you to reach the 4th all 3 are wrong. So it is how you use these three and where you reach that decides whether you are right or wrong. Till then we cannot comment on it. we cannot make any comment about it.

From today I am starting the Esoteric evening series. I am going to be talking on Aghori Sampradaya today which is our own Sampradaya. In the evening 7 pm Bharatn standard time session on Aghori Sanyasa Sampradaya. I will answer major controversial questions like why Aghoris eat human dead bodies, why they eat or drink in human skull, why they live in smasaana or burial ground. I will answer all these controversial questions.

I will end the Satsang today with this. maybe for a long time you guys did not sit in Upanishad. Today you will have few minutes of silent sitting and intense Kundalini awakening. please sit straight and close your eyes. All over the world let all the temples and Satsang centers let you all experience me intensely. Let the kundalini awakening happen intensely.

I bless you all who are sitting with us at this moment around the world in 910 places through eNtv, in 34 places through 2 way Video conferencing, in 233 cities, in 24 countries! Let you all achieve, experience, live, express, radiate and share and explode the eternal bliss, Nithyananda. Thank you!