Our Kids Need Better Education System

Suman( Calcutta, Bharat) : My dear Swamiji, the other day in satsang you advice a mother, not to pass on her negative patterns to her child. This got me really scared because that i feel that i am doing exactly that with my 4 year old daughter, after all i am nothing but a bundle of habits and patterns. What else will i pass on to her. Swamiji, can you give me some tips on how unenlightened parents can bring up their child to live an enlightened life. Swamiji: Suman, there is no way an unenlightened parents can bring up a child in a enlightened way. But i can give you one thing, you also start practicing the enlightened cognitions. What is enlightened cognitions? Its not something unachievable, impossible! Common! See. When i say enlightened cognitions, i just say few concepts . Whenever you are responding, look at it, is it bringing happiness to you, is it bringing happiness to other person, is it large good. Just simple whatever you learn in the class 1 , class 2 . Those basic simple truths but only thing it has to be drilled to deeper levels of you. See every man at one level stops the spiritual depth and say no for practical reason i have to behave like This ..The level Which he stops, responding spiritually and start saying practicality. That has to go down , nothing else. Some people, the moment the have to spend 5 rupees, they will say no no no , i have to be very practical. Some people when they have to spend 5 lakh, they will say no no no , i have to be very practical, some people when they need to loose 5 crores then they will say no, i have to be very practical. It just depends on the depth on your depth. Nothing else!

Suman, you maybe unenlightened. That is forgivable. But If you are not living enlightenment , that is not forgivable.Being unenlightened, forgivable, tolerable but If you are not living enlightenment, that is not forgivable. That is your freedom! Common!Its under your will. Its your choice! If you are saying im unenlightened , i have all my sympathy for you but If you are not living enlightenment, i have no sympathy for you! You need to be taught a lesson. You need to learn. It is time you start living enlightenment. It is not something impossible. Just the basic truths! understanding much of your responses are chemical imbalances! Understanding your anger, your greed , your lust, your fear , all of them have no base.Just understanding. I saw in my life. Handling millions of bodies and mind! Doing millions of psychological Surgeries.

See every time when i attend the problem of somebody, its equivalent to psychological surgery! First, i have to make the person trust, i can solve all your problems. that is the psychological anesthesia. Only then he will open up. Then i have to use the settle energy Which gives confidence and courage on means start listening to his problem. That is what opening to wound and giving the solution m, means removing the tumour, finally i have to give post surgery care, means i have to give meditation techniques. After performing thousands of psychological surgeries, i tell you, i really tell you. The moment human being feel that They are unenlightened, they close the whole possibillities. Being unenlightened is not crime but not living enlightenment is crime.

Suman, u being unenlightened its not only your responsible, God also responsible! So, i dont want to blame your for that . But you are not living enlightenment , you are only responsible. So when us say ,Im just bundle of patterns and habits, dont think you are great and honest . Suman, i dont want you to be honest, i want you to be authentic. Im not expecting you to have the sudo honesty, bla, bla , bla! Im not a Gandhi and you are not a Gandhian. Understand! I want you to be authentic! Im not interested in your honesty! There are so many fellows come and tell me oh i have done This i have done This i have done This , im honest to you . What is the use for me . I dont amat to see the pornography of listening to whatever you have done! No! Many of This pornography autography become very popular because not because of your honesty but of the pornographic effect! Many people come out and say oh i have done This i have done this, i have done all This in my life, they write in Their biography. It sells like anything , why ? Not because of the person is honest but because pornographic effect of it . When people read that, they go through the experience psychologically. So im not interested in your honesty. Im interested in your authenticity!Authenticity means living the solution! Honesty means talking about the problem again and again and again and again ! Im not interested in honesty! Im interested in authenticity! Live the life! Live!

Authenticity is what? All you need just do one thing! Get a two way connection and whenever you Sit and watch satsang m, see that your child is also around! Thats all nothing else! You dont know how they will grow! Dont think they will not hear, they will not understand , all that! They understand much more than you! You dont know the power of kids. In their memory whole thing get recorded! I tell you! This is a very powerful way. You want to bring up your kids, first option bring them to our Gurukul. If that is not possible , at least get two way connection and make gurukul in your house ! Thats all! If mountain not able to come to Muhammad, Muhammad will go to mountain, thats all. If you are not able to come to me, im coming to you!Have two way connection. Let them Sit and listen listenlisten ! Thats enough!

Suman, but dont take the risk of continue to have This pattern, and pass on This pattern to next generation! (Inner awakenings adv)

Ma William: My dear Swamiji..I was just blown away by what you said in Dial The Avatar the other day about the Guru Disciple relationship being like Black Hole and Big Bang. Your answering the small kod on the dial the avatar and you said when you enter into me it is a Black Hole, when i enter into you it is a Big Bang. can you speak more on this.

Swamiji: Williams when you enter into me you disappear into something beyond you. Thats what we call black hole. Black hole means all these planets.Everything! Disappearing into something Which is beyond your comprehension. Beyond your understanding. So when you disappear into something Which is beyond your comprehension that is black hole. I made another one statement, when I enter into you, that is Big Bang! Means? what is Big Bang? Whatever you see appearing from something Which you cant understand is big bang! Understand when i enter into you, it is jeevan mukthi, enlightenment! When you enter into me, it is Ganas 16.18. . Enlightenment beyond body. So, Big bang means what .Initiation! I am me entering into you.You experiencing new you! At some day, suddenly you will feel, even the trace of your old identity is not there in you! I have felt This when i left the house and went to RamaKrishna mission. Just within few days, can say in a week,i felt as i have been washed! Ah! ha! I forgot many of the dear things in my life! You know i forgot the arunachala .That was the most dearest thing to me., place for me on earth . I forgot the structure and map of the arunachala temple. After a month, for some other reason, somebody asked me some question about arunachala temple. Suddenly i remembered “ Oh God i forgot Arunachala Temple, Which is my very life! I used to breath only in that temple. Early morning when i Wake up, before even i start breathing, i will be there in the temple! In the night, practically from the temple i will jump into the house bed! And fall asleep. I lived practically in temple but i forgot. Then, suddenly when your identity moves away from you, something completely new happens in you.Takes over you! I tell you, the new taking over you is Big Bang. Buddhas enlightenment is black hole, Shankara’s enlightenment is Big Bang! Shankara constantly talks about poornatva! Buddha constantly talks about ShunyaTva! But both ultimately is one and the same. Whether it is big bang or black hole, you wont understand both! So i will be go on be speaking. Mark, you will never be hear. I tell you that is Upanishad. Upanishad means i will be constantly be speaking but you will never be hear anything but your heart will be listening! Me speaking, you will not be hearing,but whatever you will be hearing, you will never understand it,Your heart will be listening! That is what is Upanishad, i tell you! Working with the master. Directly doing His work as His guidance and instructions and working around him is the extension, continuous learning process! Because that clarifies many of the spiritual truths to you. Makes you understand about living enlightenment! Make the living enlightenment possible! Living! So eventhough you dont understand, i will make one more statement. Black hole is making you hold , big bang is bang to Wake you up! Black hole is making is a Hold. Big bang is Inner Awakening! Understand! Biggest bang in your consciousness is Inner Awakening! Receive that biggest bang! You will become hole!

Iva Vaitly : Dear Swamiji...after attending Inner Awakening , i find that i am not able to relate to my old job and life in the same way. I want to be more tolerant but sometimes i feel like i am just bursting out and not fitting into my earlier identity. I think my husband especially my concerned and scared. How to handle this new life Swamiji.

Swamiji: Iva Vaitly, i want you to see the matrix movie. It is exactly as the people who have woken up. That situation. I tell you, it is beautiful problem to have! It is 1000 times greater than the problem sleeping people are facing. I tell you, i have to put it in This way. The ultimate comfort sleeping people are having is worst than greatest problem woken up man is living! Understand, woken up man having problem is much better than sleeping man, only have comforts. People always tell no! No! No! Even im sleeping its ok. If it is comfortable that is enough! Then why dont you burry yourself. You will never have any problem. You are there all the time. Just sitting like almost Buddha.Thats not life! Dont you see, that is not life. So, Iva Vaitly as of now, you need little patience, tolerance but you should not compromise! Having tolerance and patience is different. Compromising is different! Compromising means you should not come down from your spiritual cognitions. The way you make decisions, the way you think. The spiritual cognitive shift you experiences, that should not be compromise. Dont come down from that. Add little more tolerance. Try to turn blind eye for some problem, that is allowed out of compassion. You can just turn your eyes to the other side. But you yourself should not bend , should not come down from the day you take decisions. The spiritual cognitive shift should not be reduce and show little tolerance. Dont worry your husband will not care. He will only be Happy. Just do not allow your ego to fight with people. Live with confidence. Confidence will always bring tolerance! When i can tolerate with you, you can tolerate with anybody! Understand Iva! When i can tolerate you, you can tolerate anybody! Just remember This one statement, when Swamiji can tolerate me, i should be able to tolerate anybody in the world. Thats it!

Sailesh! is asking, “respected Swamiji, during the daily kriya, whenever we were asked to hold the breath for a long time, a lot of fear comes up and i start gasping for breath. I never managed to do the kumbaka properly. Why do i have This fear? How to get over it?

Swamiji: Sailesh, one of the worst thing happen to you Bharatns, is you guys have lost the truth, you can be without taught. See, fear of Kumbhaka, holding the breath is nothing but fear of being without thoughts. You are afraid of being without thoughts. Even few moments you are without thoughts, the consciousness will grip you, consciousness will conquer you! Your mind will be replaced with consciousness. You will be Wake up! This is too much! You Bharatns have only one thing. The wealth of consciousness. You lost it after the independence. Because the only wealth you had is the power of consciousness. You lost it! And you are not even aware of it. Wake up Bharat! Its a tremendous pain im telling you. Any poverty is ok for Bharat but not spiritual poverty! Because we never build our identity on wealth! But we built our identity on spiritual richness! We never built our identity on wealth. But we always built our identity on spiritual richness. Hare, when Europe was going through a dark age, when there was no civilization, when there was only Ganas 37: 01..We had buildings reaching the sky, build with granite for our ideology, for our spiritual richness in the corner of Ganas 37: 18. Understand, identity of Bharat is spiritual richness.when you loose that, you lost everything. The moment you said, you cant hold the breath for a long time, a lot of fear come out. Sailesh, you are the NewGen of Bharat of no Bharatn gene. I feels sad for you and the new generation of Bharat, it is nothing but simply trusting you can live without thoughts and its good for you. Just remember This one idea. When you are gasping for breath, suddenly you will do kumbhaka for a long period. Understand! I am giving you the solution. If you are having difficulty in Kumbhaka, gasping for breath, just remember This one thing . Hey, its nothing but my fear to be in thoughtless space! I can be thoughtless. Nothing wrong! Relax from the fear of being thoughtless! You will be able to hold your breath for a long time. You will be able to do Kumbhaka for a long time. Simply, the Kumbhaka will happen! Fear of Kumbhaka is nothing but fear of thoughtlessness. Fear of thoughtless space. Fear of holding breath is nothing but fear of thoughtless space! I tell you, when the fear of thoughtless space disappears, even little bit of yoga will make you have a long breath! long breath creates a new energy in you! Life in you! It creates a new samana in you. Actually all This yoga , Kumbhaka, meditation, pranayama, technique, everything is just to create long breaths in you!