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Bidadi

“Sadashiva samarambam, Shankaracharya madhyamam asmadacharya paryantam vande Guru paramparam!”

I welcome you all with my love and respects! I welcome all the devotees, disciples, Samajis, Satsangis sitting with around the world at this moment in 908 places through eNtv, 24 places 2 way Nayana Deeksha, in 229 cities, in 23 countries around the world!

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Houston blessings for Shiva Bail, Mahesh and Padmini Bail blessings for all of you. I read your letter I will talk toyou during Dial the Avatar ma. Blessings! Toronto blessings for Sugunan I am with you. You will have allt eh auspicious things in your life, I am with you. Blessings!

We will enter into today’s Satsang. Start the questions.

1) My husband has anger issues. And now I am seeing the same thing in my sons. How do I help them deal with this? – Rekha, Mysore.

Rekha first thing you need to understand that anger is neither positive nor negative. Anger is like money. How you handle it, how you use it. understand any emotion whether anger, or lust or greed or fear any emotion is like money. For example if somebody does 10 rupee job, you will not pay him 1000 rupee. If you are paying him thousand rupee, you will become bankrupt very soon you will become bankrupt. Same way if somebody does ten rupee worth of mistake, don’t pay him thousand rupee worth of anger. If you are paying more anger, again you will become energy corrupt. Understand, when you pay more money than the work they have done you become bankrupt. When you pay more anger or more energy than the situation you become energy corrupt. I tell you whether it is anger, lust, greed, fear, whatever it may be, when you pay more than the worth, you are energycorrupt. If you are trying to fight with these emotions, you will only end up in suffering and suppression.

Rekha, I tell you first thing you be educated. You be educated about the anger. You have the right education. Then try to educate them. Please understand a husband never learns from wife, a son never learns from father. Only reason they never learn is that they don’t trust you really feel or you really mean good for them. Rekha, first thing you need to do is understand about the anger, internalize it. 2nd start contributing in some way with their life. Please understand when you work with others, first thing how can I contribute and make a difference in the other’s person’s life. Go with this attitude. Look at that as a sickness, your husband’s anger issue don’t look at that as ego or arrogance. Look at that as sickness, disease your husband’s ego or arrogance. Don’t label him with this one pattern. Pattern as a habit separate from him. Then it is easy for you to handle. first thing you need to internalize about your own angers, 2nd label his patterns clearly not himself, 3rd approach him with attitude how can I contribute and make a difference in his life. Unfortunately, you don’t approach with this attitude how can I contribute and make a difference in his life. The whole approach is such he also knows you are attacking him, you also know you are attacking him. I tell you through attack anger can never reduce. It only increases and breaks. Through attack solution can never be found. It is only found with this one great truth how can I contribute and make a difference in somebody’s life. I tell you the only difference between Buddhism and Hinduism - why Buddhism still keeps flourishing, still a living stream of enlightened masters, I am telling you very openly, very honestly I have seen enough of leaders in Hinduism and Buddhism. If I am given a chance, I will come back only as a Buddhist. I would love to take a body in the Buddhist tradition. Please understand, this time I assumed the body in Hindu tradition because I wanted to revive the Hindu tradition, I wanted to infuse life into this great tradition that is why I am going through so much of suffering and struggle with this unconscious Hindus. But still only Buddhism is keeping more number of Sadhus, enlightened beings alive. The one - only difference is this one attitude how can I contribute and make a difference in somebody’s life. Unfortunately, we neither understood nor practiced that as our life style, that as a part of our life’s truth - how can I support help and make a difference in his life. Never looking in that angle never seeing in that angle. No other religion which came out of Vedic tradtion is so degenerated like Hinduism. See there are at least 20 traditions that came out of the original Vedic source, original thought trend - Jainism, Buddhism, Sikhism, all religions, all other traditions fortunately kept this concept of how can I contribute and make difference in other’s life alive. Unfortunately, we missed it, very badly we missed it. Still I am even struggling to infuse this great truth inside m y own so called Sanyaasis. Forget about others. Even though they see 24 hours me continuously contributing, neither they believe nor they practice how can I contribute to another human being’s life.Approach every human being with this one attitude. Nothing else. Just this one attitude – how can I contribute and make a difference in his life. What way I can contribute and make a difference in this person’s life. Rekha, approach your husband and your sons with this one attitude. First of all you need to understand. Unless you have the right understanding about anger you cannot contribute. After you understand, approach them with the attitude how can I contribute and make a difference in this person’s life?

Your way of approach, way of talking, body language everything will be different if you have just this one attitude how can I approach, how can I contribute and make a difference in this one person’s life? Go with this attitude Rekha you will be successful. You will be successful because every person’s inner most intelligence is alive, awakened intuitive enough to recognize the help coming from outside. Please understand to recognize help coming from outside, help coming from somebody. Human beings are intuitive enough to understand the help coming from the master, coming from the other person, coming from outside. When you are working with your husband with this one attitude how can I contribute and make a difference in his life you become master to him. those few moments the master’s very energy flows through you to them. they will not be able to resist. They will transform.

2) My spouse and I argue a lot. How will this hurt our children? What can we do to avoid hurting them? – Christie, Germany.

Christie , first thing this arguing is nothing but unable to come to terms with the other person. Not with the situations understand you are not able to come to terms with other person that is why you are writing my spouse and I argue a lot. Means what? whole day you are arguing nothing else ☺

Somebody came and told me Swamiji I have lot of problem in the house. I asked what is your wife’s qualification? He said BA BL Swamiji. I asked does she go to court? He said no, she argues in house itself! Continuously your houses are running like court! Arguments go on and on and on. I tell you argument is nothing but not able to accept the other person. You are asking how will this hurt our children? I tell you it is going to bring a tremendous damage, hurt on your children. See one great thing happened in my life is I have never seen my father abusing my mother either verbally or physically. Of course he has never abused physically. , very rarely there will be some verbal fights. But he will always make sure it never happens in front of us. Even if there is some verbal arguments, it was never ever in front of us, in front of me. I tell you still I feel grateful to my father for this one thing. See now I came to know they used to have verbal arguments but there was never a physical abuse but there used to be a verbal arguments. But never ever my father did it in front of us. Just because of that I can see very clearly how beautiful my inner space got built and how much of respect I have for both of them. See respect for the parents means respect for 1001 good things. My respect for parents and 1001 good things they taught only gave me the courage to break the parental conditioning. When kids see both of you fight, parents fighting, they lose trust on life and their risk taking ability is broken. They are put in the fear psychosis of oh, if I don’t behave, I may not have place here. Understand that fear psychosis is useful in some other place. I keep that fear alive in our sangha. Unless my seeking is alive, I am not going to have place here. Unless I am alive I am not going to have place here. Everybody knows this one statement as under current in our Sangha. I keep this alive and I constantly kindle means shuffle people in the departments, or in the campuses, in the ashrams, in the branch or in the new way of administration. That is useful for some other purpose but not to run a home. To run a home you need to give a complete safe and secured feeling. Christy, you are not an enlightened master where you can create tremendous security, at the same time give courage to people. That is what is an enlightened master’s job – giving them tremendous insecurity literally showing the lion’s face in front of their nose. When they are shaken completely, almost about to collapse showing Devi is sitting on the lion relax ☺ For a moment it is a close up shot, only lion’s face. For the next moment long shot - Devi is sitting on that lion. This is master’s job. Christy you cannot do that job. Be very clear.

Your fighting creates tremendous insecurity in kids. Either you should understand and accept the other person or at least till that time don’t argue in front of the kids. Don’t argue in front of the kids. Stop that. This one attitude which I was telling how can I contribute and make a difference in my husband’s life, in my wife’s life, in my kids life you will be established in Tyaaga. You will become Sita! You will be established in Tyaaga. This Rama’s birthday I took a vow. Whoever comes in my breathing space, I will give something to them. I have decided either something physical like fruits, prasaadam or something or the spiritual energy. I have programmed myself whoever comes in my breathing space will be given something – good thing only. Something will be given to them.

Decide whoever comes in your breathing space you contribute something to them and make a difference. Make this as vow, make this as an understanding, make this as a life. I tell you really, really, really it transforms your whole life. It just transforms your whole life. Children experience incompletion with life itself when they see parents fighting. Please understand when they see parents fighting, they lose respect for life and they experience incompletion with life itself! See when they feel incomplete with the father or the mother, when they carry the wound of seeing both of them fighting, I tell you they carry so much of incompletion. And when they see both of you sharing such beautiful love, they feel so fulfilled and they feel complete and fulfilled. I wanted you to parents to take the responsibility of showing deep fulfillment to the kids, fulfillment to the next generation.

We will go to the next segment Dial the Avatar!

Today we will again resume the 2012 project!

Good news for you guys – the first victory we got against TV9. Yesterday court has given the injunction to TV9 and other media houses who are close connections of Kalanidhi Maran and SUN TV not to relay any news about us. These guys are constantly abusing giving all false information. I told the court their freedom of speech is necessary but I also have a right to live. What about that? these guys go on abusing. Judges accepted and passed the injuction. We requested TV9 and others and they passed the injunction on all the 9 media houses…..see there is a big section of media very socially responsible. But a very big section use media power to exploit and destroy anybody they want…..and media mafia, yellow journalism have also gone to supreme court. Our case has been accepted. …in the hands of SUN TV and close friends of SUN TV. I also got one more confirmed news. TamilNadu CB CID called one of our Ashramite and did further investigation….with this we ..Lenin has confessed all the crimes ☺ we impleded in the Supreme court case realted to Sahara investments not airlines. Lenin has confessed all the crimes and his bail petition is rejected yesterday in the Chennai court. This media mafia, socially irresponsible media mafia not only they spread lies….contempt of court and all that. the case is in the high court, they just …tomorrow I am going to have a press meet. Tomorrow noon 2 pm IST press meet. I welcome all of you to come with big bill boards. Press meet from the Ashram in Bangalore. All Bangalore devotees can join us in the Ashram.

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I bless you all who are sitting with us at this moment around the world in 1106 places through eNtv, in 24 places through 2 way Video conferencing, in 258 cities, 26 countries! Let you all achieve, experience, live, express, radiate and share and explode the eternal bliss, Nithyananda. Thank you!