Not Just Long Time - Part 2

Not Just A Long Time Part 2

They are not damaged, you are there as a support; that is the responsibility of a parents. The problem is, nowadays, the parents have started behaving like a business, ' Eh you do this way, then I am there with you, if not, forget about me and my support'. It's more or less black-mailing; for that you don't need a father or a mother ; for black-mailing your boss is enough; your boss will do the job !. Why then the father or mother? Parents are expected to play the role of 'safety net', when the kids take risks. ( 1.30) When the kids try to do something extraordinary, something new, which you neither have a guts, nor have a brain to try.

No it's true! Mant time, why you are a parent, because you are old enough; means, your blood is cool, your creativity is gone ! Practically, you are interested in just maintaining whatever is there, and retiring into the safety net, or safe zone. Why are you putting this same thing on your child, who is trying to experiment various components of life? I have created a beautiful bouquet of life, life philosophy for myself. I tell you,'O modern youth, if you want to stop the nervous breakdown happening to you; Understand? Very intensely the nervous breakdown is happening in to modern youth ( 2.27)

If you want to avoid the nervous breakdown, which causes three D. Depression , Drug, Death. Not only that, many other neurological disorders , even for a health reason . I tell you ; give a big No to all these 'isms', Capitalism, Communism, Socialism and all religions ( 2.57) All economic beliefs , all social systems; just say No to it ! Travel for one year to different parts of your country; if you are in Bharat, you don't need to go around different parts of the world, different parts of the country's Bharat is a miniature of the Cosmos. Every hundred kilometres you will have a different thought trend, way of living, dressing style, eating style, different religion.

You have such a rich country. If you are from other parts of the world, travel to different countries. If you are from Bharat, travel all over the Bharat. Try to say No to the concept of money, taught by, taught to you by society.. Try to say , every concept, try to drop every concept taught to you by society; security, insecurity, love, compassion, whatever ! Even the ideas about God, Guru, everything. Drop everything taught to you by society. Try to travel, I tell you, you will create a beautiful new life, philosophy for yourself.

That new life philosophy, which you create for yourself will be so strong, so solid, you will discover life ! If this light is discovered by somebody, you don't need to re-work, it's a matter, dead matter. If somebody else discovers, you can use it. But, in life you cannot use somebody else's discovery . You need to discover ! Only your discoveries will help in your life. This is such a strong teaching. All these 'so- called' parents get shaken. They say, 'Ah don't go to Nithyananda,' Why ? He will make you intelligent ! Which is too much risk. World cannot handle too many intelligent people ; because the more fools , you have, more clerks, more I.T engineers, all that foolish things you do . I am not asking you to take those risks, that is like trying to live on your adrenalin . No ! Lifestyle risks, risks in your thought process, risks in creating the philosophy of your life, risks in re - discovering your life.

So understand ; youth should re-discover their life by taking various risks a nd new responsibilities. ( 5.53) Time 11.50) to support, be a safe net, if not, at least don't be a hindrance ,.

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The next question is from Rachel from Australia who's asking, 'In my office there is a lot of gossip happening. I don't want to be a part of it, but if I don't participate, I feel like I won't be successful with my boss. What should I do ?'

In my office there is a lot of gossip happening, I don't want to be part of it, but if I don't participate I feel like I won't be successful with my boss. What should I do? 'Rachel, immediately change your job ! Even if you are successful with the boss, by becoming part of the gossip, you will be a failure in the life. Don't do this compromising. If you compromise and become part of the gossip group you may be successful with your boss, but you will be a failure in your job, in your life. In your life itself you will be a failure. Better change the job.

This gossip in the workplace. One day the boss was telling the same joke and the whole team was laughing as usual. Only one person did not laugh. Boss asked ' What happened you did not laugh for my joke?' He said 'No I found another job'. That is exact situation you are in. Understand? If you have to do gossiping or becoming part of a gossip to be successful with your boss , I think your boss is not worthy of you; understand? Make a clear decision , just because he has some money to pay you, he should not be boss for you. He should have a little charisma also to add to your life. He can add only money to your life, he should not be your boss, he should have a little charisma also to add to your life along with money. Only then he has the right to be boss for you. ( 11.55)

All the fellows who can pay salary to you, should not be a boss for you, then your life has nothing than money ! No. You have a taste, you have a culture, you have a possibilities , you have options you have your access ( 12.30) you have your nose in your life . So I tell you, if you are with a boss who can add only money to you, nothing else; I tell you, your life will become cheap , too cheap! Be with the boss who can add charisma to you, who can add many other dimension to you, who has something other than money, something more than money to add to you.

If you have to become a part of a gossip team to be successful with your boss . I cannot understand. There are some Gurus' who just need two, three people to go and sit and talk whole day. Nothing else is required. You just sit and go on telling some stories and people have to sit and listen. If you have to become part of the gossip group to be successful with your boss, I think you are in wrong place. I've a small clipping from Youtube , I'll show you how to stop the office gossip ( Swamiji laughing) ( 13.47) I tell you, it's a very powerful technique to stop the office gossip. So I'll call this as a gossip kriya. Kriya for gossip problems. We'll call it as Nithya Kriya for Stopping the Office Gossip. Let you all achieve , experience, live, express, radiate, share and explode in eternal bliss, Nithyananda.