Essence of Responsibility and Jealousy Part 2

Let’s go to the session, start the session. Listen.

Integrity - honouring the word and thoughts you gave it to you and to others. Authenticity - taking responsibility for what you feel as you and what you show to others as you and what others are feeling about you.

And now we are entering into 3rd - throat center, the throat center. This throat center is blocked when there is a non alignment between the imagination, expectation you carry about others and the others expectation about you. listen when there is a non alignment between your expectation about others and others expectation about you, that is where the jealousy and comparison starts.

Listen. You may have a superficial jealousy, superficial comparison, very superficial like - while you are driving in a Mercedes Benz if a BMW passes by - a superficial comparison. But those things does not affect you. The root jealousy, the root comparison which affects you is the non alignment of your expectation and the other person's expectation.

How many of you have in your life the non alignment between your expectation towards them and their expectation towards you, both of them are not in alignment; then you have a problem in throat, throat centre.

Anyakara is what you believe and project others to be for you as per your understanding. Listen. These are all like a legal definition. Anyakara is what you believe and project others to be for you. In this example what I expect you for me and how I tell that to you. Clear?

For example, now I am expecting Bhagawan [name of participant] to build a temple in Dallas, so I am expressing it to him. This is My Anyakaara. He expects Me, should always honour all the words I utter and fulfil them. That is his Anyakaara about Me. Clear. But, now there is a non-alignment where I am fulfilling but he is not ready to fulfil. Clear? 😃 So his throat has a problem. Now, is there anybody who are not cognising? But, if he builds the temple and I don’t honour this time keeping or what he expects from Me, then I have a problem, I have to alter, transform and stretch. Clear? Here is a volunteer. Bhagawan… What that volunteer expects from Me... is his Anyakaara about Me. What I expect from him is My Anyakaara for him. Clear? If I fulfil his expectation and he does not fulfil My expectation, his Vishuddhi has a problem. If he fulfils My expectation and I don’t fulfil, My Vishuddhi has a problem. Clear? So always be stretching, fulfilling everybody’s Anyakaara with whom your life is involved. Clear?

You have a Anyakara about Me that I should always honour My word and this time keeping and everything. Hmm? That is your Anyakara about Me and My capability, My possibility. So I have an Anyakara about you as your capability and possibility - means building a temple in Dallas. Do you commit for that or you wanted to withdraw that word? You don’t want to commit?

Participant: Now I re-commit Swamiji. You know what happened after I told Him I withdraw, I went back and saw. I said why I wanted to withdraw. Then I found out the weakness in me that I don’t want to work. I want to be lazy. Oh my God I came from this IA only to get out of that now I want to get in. No no. I want to recommit. Thank you Swamiji. It was a big sacrifice of my being to get out that laziness. Now I am doing oh my god I exposed myself and I just want getting into that. No no. I don’t want. I wanted to do.

HDH: So you are committing?

Participant: Yes. I am re-committing.

HDH: No. Then declare the commitment

Participant : The commitment was that 10 people

HDH: No no you have to utter the words, clear words. ‘With integrity and authenticity, responsibility and enriching others’ Commit

Participant: With integrity, authenticity and responsibility and enriching others that I have committed 10 people IA in July Bali for 10 people IA and total of 75 end of this year December 31st. I am committing back.

HDH: Temple you don’t want to commit? No, that is ok. You can, you cannot, it’s up to you

Participant: Right now I could only think that. In this short time that's what I could think. But after this swamiji I can not say ‘No’. So I will work on it, but I don’t know when I will be able to fulfil it.

HDH: No. That ‘when’ is you can decide even as many years as you want. But you are committing?

Participant: Yes I am committing.

HDH: So did you guys feel I forced him. I made it very clear na even before, ‘If you don’t commit no problem’. Listen, this is the power of authenticity taking responsibility for others inauthenticity. Clear?

Participant: Yes Swamiji, very clear

HDH: 😃 😃 If I can transform Bhagavan Reddy I can declare I am a Poornavatara, not just Avatara, Poornavatara.

Participant: And I always openly disagree and this because I was so authentic, I didn't know, I didn't want to do, so I just wanted to be authentic.

HDH: No. You are integrated when you disagree

Participant: Ya correct. Sorry

HDH: Not authentic, now only you have become authentic. Okay?

Participant: Ya, I got the understanding, Swamiji.

HDH: See, now the game. But you have already committed now, I can’t play the game with you. I need somebody who has not committed. Only with them this understanding can come. Understand? Alright you go. I’ll...

See here, let us imagine a volunteer here. What that volunteer expects from Me is his Anyakara about Me. What I expect from him is his Anyakara... my Anyakara for him. Clear? If I fulfill his expectation and he does not fulfil My expectation, his Vishuddhi has a problem. If he fulfills My expectation and I don’t fulfill, My Vishuddhi has a problem. Clear? So always be stretching, fulfilling everybody’s Anyakara with whom your life is involved.

Participant: If you complete that you cannot fulfill his expectation.

HDH: Ah yes. If you complete it then no problem. Even then you are not expressing your capacity. You are integrated but not authentic. Understand? See when you say... For example, if Bhagavan Reddy has said... told Me ‘I will not do that 10 people’, he is integrated, he was not authentic. Now when he said ‘No! I am going to do it.’ He has become authentic. Understand? Now you will see you will flourish in your business, you will flourish in your job. You will flourish in your relationships; in everything you will see. Because you have decided not to give up on you. Understand you have decided not to give up on you.

You saw the live demonstration of somebody opening their vishuddhi Centre. When he said he will not, his vishuddhi was locked.The moment he decided he is going to do, his vishuddhi opens. So I tell you, not giving up on you and others is the way to open the vishuddhi. Don’t give up on people. I demonstrated I don't give up on him. I was very authentic with him; even if he does not want to do, I did not force him. I just left it. But I am not going to give up on him, I am going to wait, I’ll wait and see to it he realises sometime. When I carry that cognition I am going to wait, immediately, he realises.

How many of you feel you also did not want to fulfill My expectation about you but suddenly somehow you yourself came out and decided that you have to fulfill My expectation about you. Just like Bhagawan Reddy decided, how many of you have decided at least once in your life. So in all those moments, understand, My decision not to give up on you is the one which is pulling you up. That is the rope, that is the connection. Clear?

Now I’ll repeat. Listen. My expectation about the other person is My Anyakara about him. The other person’s expectation about Me is that person’s Anyakara about Me. When there is a non alignment between these two, Vishhudhi has a problem. Who fulfills it has a flowered vishuddhi, (who doesn’t) fulfill has a collapsed throat centre. Clear?

In the vedic tradition, you are expected to wear the 6 Rudraksha in your ears because the ears which listened is honoured. It is called sundaravadam. Argatti sundaravadam. Means, if you have listened the spiritual truths, it has to be decorated and beautified. All the communities which had the tradition of initiation used to wear that. Brahmins, Vaishyas, the communities which had the tradition of initiation used to wear that. How many of you have seen your great grandfather's photograph and all he was wearing? Means, your communities all have that tradition of initiation. Argatti sundaravadam it is called.

So now you are all initiated; all your ears you can decorate it; with Rudraksha or whatever you want you can decorate it with the sundaravada because you heard, you listened. Listen now. From now onwards Nithya Dhyana yoga, Nithya Kriya yoga, Healer’s initiation, in everything I am going to sing this same song only, same four tattvas only, including inner awakening. Why you know? Because you don't listen! I will be singing this song in a different different tune, but the same song it's going to be. So better listen in the first level itself.

When you are not integrated and inauthentic, when you are non integrated and inauthentic with the Anyakara you carry about others, that reflects non integrity and inauthenticity in the Anyakara others carry about you. Got it? Let Me repeat. If Bhagwan Reddy is not ready to fulfill My anyakara about him, I am only responsible for that, not Bhagawan Reddy. Getting it? How many of you are cognizing it? If Bhagawan Reddy does not want to enrich 10 people for Inner Awakening And he has succumbed to his laziness, he is not responsible, I am responsible; because there is some incompletion in My Anyakara about him. There is a non integrity and inauthenticity, so I have to take the responsibility. Here fortunately the strength of My responsibility has helped him to jump out of the laziness and he committed. Now this is the power of My authenticity. Clear?

But still I have few people who are not ready to fulfill My Anyakara. For that I am responsible. Understand what I am saying? Bhagwan Reddy has now decided Maybe somebody is not ready to fulfill My Anyakara about them. Then I am responsible for it. Tnen in that Anyakara……. I am giving you the example. Actually I don't have any Anyakara which is not fulfilled, that is different. Hmm. If I have... Clear? If I have some anyakara about Anshuman... I don't have. If I have and if you don’t commit for it or don't stretch yourself to fulfill it then, I am inauthentic. I am responsible. When you take responsibility for others inauthenticity also, you see a new energy flowing from your throat centre. A real Shakti! Shakti means taking responsibility for all Ashakti, taking responsibility for all powerlessness. Anybody feels powerless, if I take responsibility for them then I am expressing Shakti.

How many of you feel ‘why should I take responsibility for others?’ Authentically raise your hand. If you feel ‘why should I take responsibility for others’, raise your hand? There is a beautiful place for all of you guys - graveyard. 😃 No, I am telling you the truth. Don't you understand life happens to you from others? Understand? Come on, the people who raised the hand. Now listen. Do you cognize life happens to you from others?The same team raise the hand. Do you cognize? See, the team which said ‘Why should I take responsibility for others’ raise your hand. Now if you cognize...no keep the hand raised. If you cognize ‘life happens to you from others’, raise the other hand also. Do you cognize life happens to you from others? So how many have not raised both the hands?

You, please come to mic. All you guys drop your hands. Ask your question. Don't you understand life happens to you from others? No? See, what all the main relationships fills your inner space and your day to day activity in your life? Mother, father, then?

Participant: Friends Swamiji

HDH: Friend,then may be little place for Me also. 😃

Participant: Yes Swamiji.

HDH: So how many? 6. So, do you think without the decision of these 6 people, co-operation of these 6 people, you will be able to have fulfillment in your life? You can't!! Your mother has to fulfill your son dimension. The dimension you carry as a son, it can be fulfilled only by your mother, only by your father.

Participant: But she has different expectation Swamiji.

HDH: What I am saying, whether she has expectation or not, your fulfillment can come only if she is fulfilled as your mother. See, she has different expectation,we will work that next. Whether to complete with her or align her to your achievement, or you will align to her expectation is secondary. But do you understand, cognize, unless she feels fulfilled having you as her son, you will not fulfilled having her as you mother.

Participant: I wont have that completion Swamiji.

HDH: You understand? So life happens to you from others, outside. You get it?

Participant: Yes Swamiji.

HDH: I am Your master. So now only when you feel I am a complete Master I will feel you are a complete disciple and I'll be fulfilled in the dimension of being your master; otherwise I can be fulfilled in millions of My disciples.

See, if I have one million disciple, I may be fulfilled as a Guru for all those 9 lac ninety nine thousand, nine hundred and ninety people but not with you means, I am unfulfilled still I have to sit. So Life happens to us outside. So we can't afford to say why should I take the responsibility for others expectation about me.

All of you are getting it? So life enriches you, completes you, fulfills you in outside with others. You can't afford to say ‘why should I take the responsibility for others Anyakara about me?’ Clear?