Unlock your Navel Center

See here is a puzzle! Listen, listen. How many of you feel, for some problem, you think, think, think and finally find a solution. You feel a click; “Wow, I am relieved from this problem once for all.” But, listen, listen, listen; but, after four days you forget the solution. Again drilling, drilling, drilling about the problem, and after two days again you find the same solution, and feel, “Oh God, this same problem, same solution, long before I found. How come I forgot, and I am discovering the same solution again?” Only to again forget the solution. How many of you have his experience? Raise your hand! Cognize. All of you have problem in navel center.

When the integrity and authenticity both of them are lacking, means, lack of integrity and inauthenticity merge with each other, overlap on each other. That confusion is called worrying! The chaos between inauthenticity and lack of integrity, it’s like a one fellow has entered your house to rob you, another one fellow has entered your house to kill you. Both of the saw you, both of them were trying to approach your bedroom. On the way both of them are creating sound and fighting with each other, that chaos is worry; inauthenticity and lack of integrity.

See, because of lack of integrity, the problems come. Somehow, with little authenticity you find the solution. But because of inauthenticity pattern, again you forget the solution. Understand, forgetting the solution you discovered by yourself, means, most unconscious mental setup. You are most dangerous fellow, nobody can live around you. Better you don’t involve anybody in your life; means, if you are unmarried, don’t marry. If you are married, divorce as early as possible; don’t bring kids. Move out of society, that is less danger for society. Because the solutions which you found you are forgetting within few days, only to find the same problem and find the same solution. Do you understand how much of unconscious layer, layer and layer of unconscious. Listen, do you understand? Do you cognize the gravity of the situation? Raise your hand. I am not making fun, eh? See it’s like a, listen, it’s like, the solutions you find are supposed to be the future course of life.

It’s like you want to go to Bangalore. You take a GPS, find a route with all the clear way and get into the car and after going to the road you forget and go towards Mysore. Only to find out in Srirangapatnam that you are going towards the Mysore, then you start driving here, by Ramnagara; you forget and take another one turn and go away to Hosur. By the time you reach the Electronic City, you forget, then, no you remember you are away from Bangalore. Then you start moving towards Bangalore, then you again forget and take the Hyderabad road, route.

Just then imagine what kind of a situation you are in. It's a most horrible space to exist. First of all, 90% of the people don’t find solution! And somehow you find solution and you forget that also. How many of you, please listen, cognize, even arriving to the solution, that thought pattern will be same second time, third time when you discover the solution. But you will forget you travelled the same route and found that same solution. Raise the hand! This is called addiction; whatever problem for which you are trying to find a solution, you are addicted to it.

Addiction means, forgetting the solutions once you found, and getting caught in the same problem, again to find the same solution, just to forget the solution again, to find the same solution again; to forget the solution again, to find the same solution again. If you are caught in this rut, make it, mark my word, impossible for you to grow in life. You may have wealth by, as an unfortunate way. Not as a fortune. Never you’ll taste success of life, completion in life, fulfillment in life. First thing you have to attend is, it is a emergency, in war mood you have to attend to this. More and more hangover and incompletion of thoughts you have inside you, the more and more forgetful you become.

Listen. Incompletion means, the first session I described - when you commit with you and others, do not honor, that is incompletion. Those incompletions become hangover in you; when the incompletions become layer and layer, you become forgetful even about the incompletions. Forgetfulness happens to you when you are overwhelmed by constant incompletion of thoughts happening inside you, and that leads to constant worrying to happen inside you.

How many of you authentically cognize this happening inside you? So you guys have to immediately attend, and do the completion with you and with others. Immediately, today. It is like a, if your bladder is full, how fast you run 😀 to the restroom, with that speed you have to run to do the completion. If your bladder is full the speed with which you are running to the washroom, that should be the speed. You have to take up completion, completing with yourself and others in, as a emergency mood, as emergency mood.

One more thing, kindles this pattern of worrying is cribbing. How many of you feel, listen, listen. If you crib it is very cute. You have a freedom to crib. It's like a; “ eh, whole day I work, one hundred things I do perfectly, some two three things I can crib. I am... I have a right to crib, I am authorized to crib. Why, When 90% I do perfect, 10% why can’t I crib? People who live around me should tolerate my 10% cribbing, I have the right, I am...” How many of you feel your cribbing is very cute? Understand what I am saying? For example, you see, hundred day you attend the morning yoga regularly. Listen, listen here. Listen. Hundred day you attend the morning yoga regularly. So you think hundred and first day, “Hundred days I attended. Swamiji should understand. Earlier I used to attend only ten days, now I attended hundred days, today I can take off, It’s ok. I have, if he asks me, I’ll crib. ‘Oh, what is there one day? Can’t I take one day off? Am I a slave or what? Even one day can’t I sleep?.” Now all of you cognize? How many of you feel cribbing is cute and you have a right for cribbing? Raise your hand! Raise your hand! This is the door for hell, get in. No, really.

The moment you cognize something as authenticity, and crib and say it’s okay, you have destroyed. ‘It’s okay’ pattern destroys you straight away. I have seen in My life, ‘it’s okay’, that cribbing does not start for big problems. It starts only with small problems. When it becomes pattern, only then it attacks the big things. And you will not be able to save yourself from big problems.

I know when a Bramachari starts cribbing, and feels very cute when he misses one day morning yoga, I know he has fallen into the ditch where nobody can save. Because ne, then next day he will say okay to the Brahmacharya itself. “It’s okay, what is there?”. Because it's okay starts attacking you from small, small, small, small way, and makes you lose confidence over your authenticity, then suddenly attacks you in a big way and you say okay to it,

When your mom gives you 10 rupee and asks you to buy something from the shop, when you come back, if you just take away 50 paice for a cigarette or for a candy, that is where the womanizer in you starts, the robber in you starts, drunkard in you starts, murderer in you starts. Don’t think day one you will start doing the murder. Day 1 you will not start doing, becoming alcohol, alcoholic. Day 1 you are not going to become a murderer, or Day 1 you are not going to become a burglar, day 1 you are not going to become a womanizer.

Understand, “It’s okay,” that pattern surrounds you slowly, slowly, slowly and weakens you, like a white ant. White ant how it gets in... slowly, slowly, slowly it weakens the tree and one day in a small, even in a ordinary breeze the tree falls. How many of you feel? You allowed the white ant, “it’s ok” to settle in your system and authentically how many of you feel? Everytime when you understand, cognize only you solve. “It’s Ok” is the demon, the cute cribbing. Means “Hey, why can’t I just do this much? Just after all this is very ordinary.” Somewhere a very small thing, but which you know which is not authentic to you, to your Mamakara, Ahankara and Anyakara. And you say “It’s ok, I can pamper myself, it’s after all a small thing.” That is where the demon starts in you!

I call it cute cribbing. Which is not cute, which is not cute, which is dangerous. I have seen people just burying themself, just with this cute cribbing. Cute cribbing, keeps the worrying alive. It keeps the fire of worrying rekindled. How many of you understand the gravity of cribbing? How many of you feel just because of that cute cribbing, you have lost very valuable things in your life, very important things in your life? Is it worthy? Understand, cute cribbing is like snowballing. It starts as very simple, ends up as the worst thing.

There is a very beautiful incident in Vivekananda’s life. He asked a Bramachari to do puja, and says: “don’t waste things, this is guruvak.” And that Bramachari uses a second matchstick to light a lamp. He did not, he was so unaware, irresponsible, he wasted the first matchstick. He used a second matchstick to light the lamp. Vivekananda sent him out of the campus. Means kicked him out of the Sangha. He said, “Cribbing has started in you! You need to get out of this cribbing pattern and come back.” You may say: “for a matchstick, Bramachari is sent out? “ Vivekananda puts it beautifully, this is the way cribbing starts, inauthenticity enters.

Because it is small things, it becomes pattern; you allow it to become a pattern. After that you yourself see it has become a big prison for yourself, you are not able to get out of it. How many feel you have built a prison around you, by, because of that cribbing pattern? Cognize. Authentically cognize and then participate. Cognize and let Me see, how many, raise the hand. Others are not able to cognize or, how many are not able to cognize what I am saying? Raise your hand.

Understand, let Me define once more. Like, small, small ways allowing the inauthenticity or lack of integrity in your life. One, for example, you tell somebody, “ tomorrow evening I will meet you for dinner,” Neither you honor the word, nor you call and tell the person, “I won’t be coming.” And you think, “ eh he’s my friend, it’s okay, and I can tell him day after tomorrow.” Understand what I am saying? So this is the way, “eh, after all I met him so many times, I honored my word; once not honoring is not, it’s ok, it’s not a big thing.”

Do you cognize now? Cognize means internally process, understand and answer, declare. Clear now?

“I have met him on time hundred times. And I am authorized, qualified, once not to meet and dishonor the word”. Pampering yourself, by cribbing. Cribbing is the bomb and you thinking it is cute is the fire! And unfortunately bomb is in the right space below.