Stable Family

Now, we will work on throat centre, Vishuddhi. The thought current flows for the throat centre is comparison. Continuously comparing, without knowing each individual is unique. How do you compare? I really still can’t understand. Even about the money, how will you create a scale to compare?

You don't worry comparing with yourself with Bill Gates but why do you worry comparing yourself with your brother? You don’t compare yourself with Bill Gates and worry, but you compare yourself with your brother means even in the comparison you have a limitation. You set yourself certain frequency, hey even for the comparison I can go up to the frequency. Continuously you hurt yourself and stop your creativity expressing through comparison.

Destroy your joyful moments through comparison. Any success you achieve immediately with comparison you destroy that moment. You can’t tolerate joy, that is the big problem. No, really, you can’t tolerate joy in your life, you feel it is wrong, how, how dare this joy come to my life? It is not supposed to be here. How can this happen in my life? This joy should be taught a lesson. We are so involved, engrossed, with our negativity.

We go on comparing... I can say five major comparisons...health and beauty, wealth and comforts, love and relationships, name and fame, even in spiritual experiences. You’re jealous of somebody else levitating. Aare, common, only if you drop the jealousy you can levitate. With jealousy not only you’re postponing your levitation, you're disturbing, you're destroying your spiritual growth.

Why he is levitating, why she is levitating, not me?

She is levitating because she is levitating... what to do? (laughing) He is levitating because he is levitating... what to do? (laughing) Sometimes you just suddenly catch the fire. it is not something to do with karma and all, it is something to do with the mental setup of ability to trust. See if you had a, at least one strong trusting relationship who has not betrayed you like your father or mother or someone in your life, whom you trusted but never betrayed you. Even if one relationship if you have in your life like that, that trust will directly turn towards me and you’ll catch the fire. You’ll experience the feeling connection, simply the levitation will happen or whatever I am transmitting will happen. If you have not had even one relationship, who has not betrayed you, that is where the trusting, the feeling connection, accepting somebody based on the face value, is not there at all in your system. It is a more or else game of trust and feeling connection. It is not that big game of a practice or karma, all these things.

After you get initiated, you have a solid experience, then practice may help you. Practice will make it solidified in your system. But in the initially, to catch the fire itself, practice does not play a big role. Practice does not play a big role. It is a, It is the just your being catching it...kind of a, if i have to say in modern language “clicking”. If you had any one relationship in your life completely that, not betrayed you even once, your... Many people have like that in their life. Usually if you’re from Bharatn village, you’ll have father or mother, somebody, some one person. But if you’re from Bharatn city nothing can be done. They lost that stable family tradition. One of the worst loss happen to Bharat, after independence, is that stable family concept is stolen. I feel that is the biggest miss. If we had retained that stable family concept, we would’ve faced anything, we would’ve faced anything. Our root is stable family, we lost it. I am very clear, we lost it. I don’t know whether we able to get it back at all. If you’re from a stable family background, kind of the joint family or a stable family, you’ll easily be able to trust and catch the feeling connection. Even in the ashram, I've seen any brahmachari or brahmacharini, who come from a stable family, where they had either father or mother very trustworthy, never betrayed, they immediately connect with me and raise. Then after they get initiated and get the experience, then unclutching and all the other practices works. You see, by practice also, you can achieve, it takes lot of time, but if you have this feeling connection, the background of the stable family, you catch it immediately. Immediately you catch the initiation, the fire, the awakening, and then all your practices will solidify it. So blessed are those who have a stable family background. Even if you curse them sometimes, you are not allowed to drink, smoke, fool around. You’re not allowed to run around in bars, clubs. That’s one of the biggest curse this stable family kids give for their family. They say, “oh we are not allowed to enjoy our youth”, but I tell you, the incredible, some of the unimaginable experiences and the mental setup, only a stable family can give. I am trying to rebuild the concept of joint family and stable family. Every 100km, Bharat has a different food, different cloth. Every 100km, travel 100 km in road in Bharat, you will not see the same food. From here I am telling you example, travel 100 km in the Hosur direction, different food Tamilnadu, Chittoor direction different food Andhra, north kendra direction different food.

We have such a rich way of eating, if you’re from a stable family background, you can easily catch the initiation. That’s very easy, because trusting will be in your blood. So any other karma can be destroyed by that one fire. If you don’t have the stable family background, don’t be depressed. We will work it in some other directions that’s all, some other way. But if you’re from a stable family, if your father or mother has behaved such a way that your trust on them was not broken or betrayed, feel blessed, because that whole thing just, without even your knowledge will turn towards me. If the parents are good people, immediately I’ll initiate the person into sannyas. Even if the boy or girl came out of the house fighting with them, I will not bother. I will initiate them, because of the stable family setup. If they’re not stable people, even if the parents send the child, I will wait. Because it is not that easy for the child to trust. He would have grown up with constantly defending himself.

Constantly comparing yourself, takes away the trust on you. You will not be able to trust you because of the constant comparison. Constant comparison is the thought current flow for this throat centre.

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