“subject is Love the ultimate healing energy.”

subject is Love the ultimate healing energy. Let me define love. Love is not any way related to two physical structures, it is not even related to your own physical structure, it is not even related to the mental qualities you carry. Love is related to awareness you carry. Please understand, the awareness you carry naturally spreads its smell in your mental structure & your body. So the awareness which your physical structure experiences if that feels connected to the awareness of some physical structure is called infactuation.

There are so many things moving in the universe. Each one of you is awareness expressed by your physical & mental structure. If the physical structure feels connected it is called infactuation, if mental structures feel connected it can be called attachment. If one or more awareness directly just overlap or just flows into each other it is called love.

Two physical structures if they feel connected, if their awareness feel connected it is called infactuation, one or more mental structures if they feel connected it is called attachment. When awareness goes beyond physical & mental structures is called love.

Now scan all your relationships with this understanding. Suddenly all your love relationship problems, possessiveness will disappear. Your marriage will be honeymoon. It will become a beautiful living relationship.

Same thing we do with life. When the relationship is alive we are in fear. I don’t know when it will end. We kill it, put in a frame and put it in the reception room. The smile which happens in the family photo never ever happens ever with that physical nearness. Even at that moment photographer would have shouted smile please at that moment!

The greatness of sexual energy is it will disappear the moment the physical & mental structures feel connected & awareness overlaps. All these sexual magazines go on giving tips on how to keep your sexual life alive – 10, 20, 30 tips. Nothing works ☺

Because the distance in the physical plane or mental plane increases. 90% this happens.

11 years of married life only the sex should be there. When the overlapping of awareness happens then you need not confirm love by sex. That is why in vedic tradition there is aaseerwachana – by 11th year let you both become mother & son, father & daughter. In both ways, the distance becomes more or it completely disappears. In both ways sex disappears. Sex is like a liquid, it either freezes like ice or evaporates like steam. If it evaporates like steam, your consciousness levitates. If it freezes you are also frozen, caught in the ice box.

Understand this definition of love. 1000s of problems, not only related to relationships. I can say there are 1000s of problems which are perversions of relationships. When the relationship is not fulfilling, suddenly anything he or she does irritates you. If you know the real love even intellectually, you will start radiating healing energy. Healing does not mean you will put hand on somebody’s head and the person comes out. This is the healing stick I am giving to all of you. Understanding of love. Fill this understanding in all your relationships. Sit & scan – what is my relationship with my father, mother, spouse, brother, friend, world , how is it? I have seen people wasting years just with relationship with their dog. It is not love. It is 3rd grade perverted infactuation. I tell you having pet deity is 1000 times better than having pet dog. Don’t waste your time with pets. They are not my pets understand they are my disciples (refers to birds who are dropping grass on him)

Let your marriage become awareness overlapping, free relationship. Let all your relationships become like this. Based on awareness of flowing of awareness into each other. Not cold frozen. You can see when you sit next to each other at least 5 feet around you is frozen.

This is the ultimate healing energy. I bless you all to radiate love the ultimate healing energy. Blessings!