Introducing You, to You!

From morning we understood about Inner image, outer image, other’s image, life image, what we have, what we want to have. The gap between the image you have and the image you want to have, that gap is what I call Incompletion. For example your actual inner image: “I am lazy, I can’t do anything, I will become tired, I will feel bored, I can’t get up early morning and do Yoga.” The outer image: “I am very active, I don’t become tired” How you project: “I am brisk”. What is it? The gap, the inner image and outer Image. And the inner image you have is “I am tired, I have become bored, I can’t be physically active” and the real inner image you want to have. What you have is “I am lazy”, what you want to have, naturally everyone wants to be active, alive, get up early morning four o’clock, do Yoga. Then what is stopping you, you not becoming what you want to be? Some of the patterns, I am giving you one example.

Actually your inner image you want to be active, but you are very lazy; the pattern is that lazy pattern, feeling bored pattern. Now, If you get this pattern and complete it, if you find that pattern - when you started becoming lazy, when you started becoming non active in the life, why you started becoming feeling bored in the life; and find that pattern and complete, I tell you, you don’t need to practice getting up in the morning, 4 o’clock for years, no. The day you complete with the pattern, next day morning 4 o‘clock you will not have sleep. You will be fresh flower.

Transformation does not happen by discipline. Order in your life does not happen by discipline. It happens by completion. Please understand, discipline never brings order, only completion brings order. How much ever you struggle and try to wake up early morning 4 o’clock, after three days you will lose control over you, respect for you. You can keep 25 alarms and 3.30 you will get up and switch off all the alarms and lie down at 4 o’clock. How many experienced this? Tell me.

Discipline will not bring order in your life. It is Completion which will bring order in your life. I am giving you one small example of waking up in the morning. I can give you tons of examples: Smoking, drinking or any other patterns with which you are struggling; addiction or getting confused. This getting confused is a biggest pattern. The moment you see your mother in law or your boss, you are thrown off balance. This getting confused is again a pattern. How many of you are able to understand what I mean by the word Incompletion and Patterns? Please raise your hand. What you are and what you want to be, the gap between these two is Incompletions. And Incompletions repeating itself is Pattern.

How many of you are not able to understand, please raise your hand. If you are not able to understand, any question you have I will answer. See, here either you should understand, you should not understand. If you don’t understand, I'll try to explain. Because even one word, if you don’t understand, you will not be able to experientially practise this technique. So the technique I am going to give you is depending on these understandings. You need to live all these understandings. Transform yourself with all these understandings. mh, Go ahead.

Participant: Pranams Guruji, Swamiji, discipline is required, not required, how it?

HDH: No, no, no. I am not saying discipline is not required. I am saying the order in your life will happen only with Completion. Never by discipline. Discipline how much ever you try, you will see you are only failing again and again. Because it is fight, you fighting with you.

Anybody else has a doubt? Please come come to the mic.

Participant: Actually you say in the morning while we put even the alarm also, we’ll switch off. Because of that sometime, you know, we have to continue also without alarm we can wake up. Actually that time what happen in the physically strain[6:42] or something that we cannot able to wake up. That with continuation also, . The body will get too much straight ...

HDH: See, I am just giving you one example of this waking up on alarm , you look into your list. Actual inner image you have and the image you want to build. The gap between.

Participant: Right.

HDH: You understand, the actual outer image you have and the outer image you want to build. The gap between. Just look. If you see there will be few habits, few incompletions, few patterns stopping you becoming what you want to become.

Participant: Ok. So one more question.

HDH: Mhm.

Participant: Actually sometimes I have some positive thinking. I have to explain to others, they will give some negatively they will speak, at that time I’ll get immediately headache and then I will totally, my mind will be blocked.

HDH: Mhm. What I am saying. Such a simple words should not derange you. You should be more stronger. Such simple words can not, should not derange you. That’s again coming to the …, it comes to the Inner pattern you have getting deranged. You don’t even need the other’s words, if you just see some wrong signboard… it means you are waiting to collapse. Just a small cat is enough, rat crossing, cat crossing is enough. How many of you have this “black cat bad omen”? You will not tell, I know.

Participant: I won't believe all those

HDH: Anyhow it may not be black cat but you will develop your own omens.

Participant: And maybe I will think always the positive and negative. And the respective … If it comes negative for what. It is maybe something wrong my side maybe something wrong opposite. That I will take.

HDH: See basically anything anywhere, whether it is a victory or a failure, if you have the pattern of collapsing internally, that is going to be constantly collapsing; even in victory many people collapse.

Participant: How to come out of that?

HDH: That only now I am going to do. That is what I am explaining. Why, why the pattern of collapsing has started developing in you. There must be some incident from the young age developed. Just sit and look within, when you started collapsing? Maybe as early as , when you were studying in the fourth class, fifth class, you gave some wrong answer and whole class laughed at you. There you will decide “I will never jump out and speak”. So it can be as simple as that. And that again starts getting built, built, built like a pattern. The moment you discover the pattern and decide to complete, immediately the pattern loses power over you. You will be free. Next time, the same situation you face you won’t collapse. You will stand up. You will be alive. You will be bright. You will be active. You will be functioning. How many of you understand what I am saying? That’s all. Mhm.

Participant: Last question.

HDH: Go ahead, go ahead. You can have any number of questions. I have no problem.

Participant: No no, actually I have sometime in the dream at midnight, actually I have some positive thoughts, maybe designing concepts comes. That time automatically waken up, like without any this thing also, no need of any alarm, it says to mind like that. I will start keep on drawing or some designing the next two days, maybe that planning will be there, it comes automatically i have to wake up. Actually without knowing anything, actually i never get any strain that time.

HDH: No, that is the internal inspiration. That is possible. That is possible, no doubt. It is good. It is good. Means, those few minutes you were out of these incompletions so that you are able to think out of the box. That’s something out of the box.

Participant: Will that be, in future also I can develop …

HDH: When the incompletions melt down you will have that space more and more.

So now, few minutes I want you to sit and look in. What all the incompletions haunting you. It can be as simple as tea habit or as complicated as multiple affairs. It can be as simple as you trying to have a fight, pick a fight constantly with people or you trying to constantly do something violent. So please understand. Dig out the patterns. Dig out the patterns which is not allowing you to create authentic inner image, outer image, life image, other’s image you want to have.

See, the inner image, outer image, other’s image, life image you are having presently is inauthentic. That is why each one of them contradict with each other. And the best Inner Image, outer Image, other’s Image, life image you want to have is authentic. If you see the best you want to have, all the four will be completely aligned. How many of you discovered that? What you want to have and you pen all four of them are aligned authentically. Because authentically when you develop you, it will be aligned. This gap between authentic identity, inauthentic identity is Incompletions. Sit and pen down thoughts, emotions, patterns, Incompletions which is stopping you becoming authentic.

The Inner Image, Outer Image, Other’s Image, Life Image you have is inauthentic identity.

Inner Image, Outer Image, Other’s Image, Life image you want to have is your authentic identity.

Identify and pen down all the incompletions that are stopping you from expressing your authentic identity. Each of the incompletion, find out and pen down the incident when the Incompletion started in you. If you look you will be able to easily find out the incident when the incompletion started in you. For example the incompletion is fear of going to the beach. The incident is the murder in the beach which you saw. Morning example I gave, like that. So look in, each of your incompletion you will have an incident. Find that and pen down. Please start.

At least pen down 10 Incompletion and the corresponding incidents when that Incompletions started.

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