The Formula for Success

Participant: If we make some decision that we want to do something, it will merge into the universe and it will just happen (..)

Swamiji: Mmh, see, it is not imagining. It is very clearly consciously deciding. And consciously deciding, that this, this, this, this should happen. Actually this time I have consciously decided, like a Vatican for Christianity, the Haridwar should become for Hindus. The Headquarters I am already seeing so much power in Me; you will see it will happen. Responsibility is power, not just duty.

Participant: My problem is, I want to expand, but really I’m so comfortable now. I think about all the tension and also sleep.

Swamiji: There is nothing, you see, nothing of that. First understand, stress is nothing but your internal conflict. You see, ah, you strongly believe, if you take up that you will be stressed. Because of that belief you fall into stress. You start strongly believing, if you take up this work you will be stressed. Which is not true.

Participant: \>\>inaudible\>\>

Swamiji: See, when you take up, be very clear, that taking up gives you so much power. So when more responsibility work situations come, this power will go on be handling. Why do you limit your power? You think “Even if I take up billion dollar, ah, responsibility company, my consciousness will be same of a million dollar company” No! You do automatically expand inside based on the weight you put outside. That clarity is what is trust on life. See, I go on expanding, I go on adding. This word, people who live around Me, will understand. Go on adding. When I talk to them I’ll tell, “Ehh see, so much I’m taking up, so much I’m ...”. Inside I don’t believe at all. Still I feel I am jobless. I am just nicely enjoying My life. Because I know, when I take it more and more and more, it it is a power. It’s a power. Understand.

Participant: You mentioned vision. Can you elaborate on that?

Swamiji: Vision, you see, if you just create a responsible vision, the people, money, whatever is needed for it, simply flows towards it. Most difficult thing is not having property, money or people. Most difficult thing is having vision. So work for that.

Participant: How do you develop the vision?

Swamiji: Responsibility. Responsibility.

Participant: ….The confidence I can do it

Swamiji: No. Responsibility. That I want to take responsibility for this. I will be sincerely a cause for people to realize their reality. Then what happens, you, you wake up and so many people for whom you want to take responsibility, they all wake up to you. You meeting Me is not even meeting, you waking up to Me. Understand, it is like you are bitten by Me, by My inspiration and energy. Understand, you wake up to Nithyananda. When you develop something responsibly, people just wake up to you.

Participant: How does the enriching aspect come with this responsibility?

Swamiji: When you, you see, all responsibility will be only towards enriching. Only towards enriching. I tell you Ma, I just give you one example. You try to take responsibility for your selfish interest. How much you are able to galvanize yourself, to put yourself into it? And you take up responsibility to enrich others. How much you are able to galvanize yourself, to put into that, see the difference between this two. Then you’ll understand the power of enriching.

Even you can’t galvanize yourself, if it is just all about yourself. Even your own leg will say, “No, I am tired, I am going to lie down”, hand - “If you want you do the - that.” Your eyes will say, “no, no, no, I am going to close down”, mouth - “If you want, you do that.” Your ability to galvanize yourself itself reaches its peak only when you decide to take the responsibility for enriching. Mmh.

Participant: Creating a space, creating a space, so creating a space is that you consciously decide everything, right? So for something Iam able to do, for some I am not able to do. For example when I’m enriching, when I’m calling people. So somebody I’ll be able to create a space and talk. With some people I’m not able to.

Swamiji: It means you have a incompletion with that person, the earlier incompletions, you have to complete it.

Participant: But I don’t know that person.

Swamiji: Ahh?

Participant: I just know their name or something like that.

Swamiji: No, you may be having some, some unknown incompletions. What subject you are going to talk to them, about that maybe there may be incompletion.

Participant: Yeah, I just want to tell them, please attend this function in the temple or

Swamiji: Mmh. Then maybe, maybe the unknown fear

Participant: Because I don’t know that person ...

Swamiji: That is what. Ah, that unknown fear. You need to know, there is no such thing as you don’t know somebody. When, if the somebody is there in your space, you know them; either you are afraid of them, or you avoid them. That’s all. There is no such thing as, there is no such thing as you don’t know somebody.

Participant: How do you deal with a situation, when you are intimidated by someone?

Swamiji: Intimidated by someone?

Participant: Yes. Let’s say I go to court with a case and the judge is a very difficult judge and I don't know how do I deal with that kind of situation?

Swamiji: Maybe... settle down! \<Swamiji speaks to another Participant\> Maybe, ah, you were, you were waiting and you are creating that kind of a situation only should happen.

Participant: Of course, we all know that the judge has a reputation for being difficult. And, also, we go with the fear. So how do you, how do you complete with that fear?

Swamiji: Complete with the fear and go, you will see a different person there.

Participant: Can you explain the statement, that “you don’t know another person”. Can you explain that a bit, please?

Swamiji: See, there is nobody whom you don’t know. If you don’t know some parts of you, only then you will have the fear that you don’t know somebody. For example, how comfortably I am sitting and talking with you, whether you bring Obama or Osama, I’ll have the same comfort. 😃 I’ll deal with them with the same comfort. If they want, that I should be uncomfortable, little frightened, I’ll do that same drama. If you don’t know some parts of you, only then you don’t know somebody outside. If you know all parts of you, how sometime, just because you can, you try to be crazy. Just because you can afford, you shout. Because you think it is a luxury, you can afford. Just because you are happy, you are too polite. Because just you want to express your goodness.

So, if you know all your logical, illogical dimensions of you, you will not be afraid of anybody’s logical, illogical dimensions. It is you not knowing your own logical, illogical dimensions, gives the fear of somebody’s illogical dimensions. Why you are illogical sometime? Just look in. You will know why people are illogical sometime. That’s all.

Yes, go ahead. Can you use the mic, mmh!

Participant: Yesterday in the satsang I heard that you must not give up on people

Swamiji: Mmh. Go ahead, go ahead

Participant: I don’t ah, I don’t really still understand what means, don’t give up on people. If our relationship is not actual anymore, what does that mean to give up on...

Swamiji: See, listen, ah, you are asking about the relationship, Try to complete from your side. Today and tomorrow you will learn the science of Completion with others. Mmh? If the other person really does not want to live with you, then o.k; let him not live with you. But, even then you are not giving up upon him, because the other person is, you are making other person's reality. But from your side let there be no giving up on. See even if you don’t live with that person, it is only causing his reality. Not giving up on him. Clear?

Participant: No, it’s not about a relationship where I live with someone?

Swamiji: Then what, exactly, tell,ah?

Participant: It’s about, it’s about work?

Swamiji: Ma, I’ll do one thing. Now the, now, the next, next day we are going to be working on the Completion with others and all. That time these doubts will be clarified. Now I will answer, whatever has happened in last 4 days. That only I wanted to complete. Yes, go, go ahead \<Swamiji speaks to next Participant\>

Participant: \>\>inaudible - Participant speaks about fear and insecurity\>\> What does that mean?

Swamiji: You are afraid of some of your unknown dimensions. See, if the Kundalini awakening happens in you, “What will happen to me, I don’t know, why should I get into something unknown? Who knows, all these fellows are jumping this side, that side, swaying.” So, you understand? So something, ah, something of unknown about you, if you are afraid only, then you will be afraid of Me.

Participant: And how do I find that out ?

Swamiji: See, ah, you don’t need to find it out, you can just say, no, no, you, listen Ma, there’s a Sanskrit word “Vyakta, Avyakta”- manifest, unmanifest. In you, whatever you know you as you, is manifest. And there is something unmanifest. This manifest is already mess!

Participant: \>\>inaudible - making a funny statement\>\>

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Swamiji: Ah only, with, when the unmanifest comes, this mess can be cleaned. Understand, so, ah, decide, I am going to allow the unmanifest, only then the manifest will be cleansed.

Participant: Even though I don’t know what the manifest is I just….?

Swamiji: Yes.

Participant: I just say I allow that?

Swamiji: Yes! I will allow it. I am welcoming it. Because this manifest is a big mess.

Participant: Yes, I agree.

Swamiji: So, then why should I be afraid of unmanifest? That’s all.

Participant: So, that’s so simple.

Swamiji: That’s simple. 😃 See, Vyakta is always afraid of Avyakta. Manifest is always afraid of unmanifest.

Participant: shouldn't be

Swamiji: Decision, just simple decision.

Participant: The body awareness will increase?

Swamiji: Yes, yes, yes. With Completion body awareness will tremendously increase. Mmh.

Participant: \>\>inaudible\>\>

Swamiji: Both, both simultaneously. There is no such thing as one - by - one - by - one. You see, only when you take bath in the shower, you wet the body one by one. In the Ganga just you jump, that’s all. 😃

Participant: Swamiji, how do you complete with a leaking roof? A roof that leaks all the time.

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Swamiji: No, actually, you can see, maybe you don’t want to take any big decision to settle that once for all.

Participant: \>\>inaudible\>\> I have a fear that it wasn't repaired

Swamiji: Mmh. Not only that. You may not have taken a proper responsibility to look into it. When they’re repairing or cleaning, take up responsibility. Actually, even that is nothing but incompletion. I tell you, if My water tap leak als, leaks also, I’ll look in, look into Me only. What is the incompletion...

Participant: \>\>inaudible\>\> Does it apply to ...

Swamiji: Everything.

Participant: Is it not just the physical, physiological problem\>\>inaudible\>\>?

Swamiji: Ah, physiological is nothing but the expression of your psychology. Even this cold air comes is our decision only.

Participant: \>\>inaudible\>\> if I’m feeling cold it’s ah...

Swamiji: Our decision. See, now all of us have decided to sit, weather has become nice.

Participant: Ah, if I promise somebody but I forgot to do it by accident , is it also incompletion?

Swamiji: It is strong incompletion, you have to complete with it.

Participant: Swamiji, if I was trying to complete, but it seems like the incompletions keep coming back?

Swamiji: Again complete, that’s all.

Participant: But it seems like I am doing again and again

Swamiji: You have to be doing, doing, doing, over. Till it’s complete.

Participant: When we call somebody and complete with them, ah, that we can not come the next morning. Is that an easy way out of, going to the difficult part of, doing whatever is needed?

Swamiji: Ah, you see, then you can all the time lying down in the bed. You don’t even need to wake up na. See, the amount of commitments you make and you fulfill it, is equivalent to success. And not making any commitment, you will be integrated. But integrated bull, integrated buffalo, a buffalo is integrated. You want to be an integrated buffalo? You see the dog, it never gave any commitment, never bothers about it. It is integrated. \<Laughter\> You want to be that? Integrity alone may not be enough, Authenticity makes you a man.

Participant: Thank you.

Swamiji: There are sooo many integrated buffalos, morning sharp they get up and just come and lie down in the Ganga. And night they go back. Mmh.

Participant: Ah, Swamiji, coming here, I, considered it more reasonable to tell to my boss that my father is ill, and I have to go to Poland for 2 weeks.

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Swamiji: No, you could have told this: “I am ill, I have to go for treatment.” That would have been better statement. That would have been almost true also. He doesn’t need to know what ill, illness you carry.

Participant: Okay, thank you.

Participant: Can you expand on completing with physical aches and pains, so if you have a sort of back pain

Swamiji: Ah, we’ll be doing it as a session. We’ll be doing it.

Come on.

Translator for Participant: Swamiji you were saying that we have some relationships, win-win. relationships where both people win, which is basic principle of law, universal law of life. Is there a list of different universal law?

Swamiji: No, no, no, no no, Oh you’re asking many, ah yes yes, that I can, see… in the further, in the further, in this programs you will listen, you will get to know many universal laws.

Participant: Swamiji, I got to know my root pattern, but how to get to know the purpose of my life?

Swamiji: After completion of the root pattern you will get to know. You will see it. Mmh. Mmh.

Participant: Swamiji, you said that integrity is not transparency. But does it mean that I tell a lie and then just keep just keep quiet?

Swamiji: No, no, no. Lying is completely non-Integrity. I am not saying ‘lie’. I am saying that you don’t need to be telling everything to everyone.

Participant: Okay.

Participant: Being integrated to lies?

Swamiji: No! No! No! No! It cannot be.

You can’t be integrated to non-Integrity. You can’t be responsible to irresponsible. You can’t be inauthentic to authentic. Sorry, you can’t be authentic to inauthentic.