Sacred Secret of Responsibility

Participant: Last question is there, if somebody sick, if I think they are my extension, I won’t be, how will I help?

Swamiji: No, no, no, If you think they are your extension and tell yourself, “After all me, let this health be extended to them.” That is what is all about healing. That is what is all about healing. That is what we have proved; see when I am trying to heal somebody, we have medically proved, My brain waves and the other person brain waves are in the same frequency. The other person's brain waves come up for, you see, aa..when we did this research first in St. Louis, when I put My hand on the other person, you have read the research na. The other person’s brain waves have suddenly become like mine for that full 20 minutes and same way when I materialize. Whoever is receiving the materialized object, their brain waves become my... exactly like mine for that 40-50 minutes.

You understand? You can do that. “When they are my extension, let this health be extended to them.” And you will never attract that disease in you, don’t be afraid. We always have the fear, “No, no, no if that is the case, then suddenly, in that same door if their disease enters this side what will happen? Haahahha 😃 You understand, it is always, when you open yourself to the higher principles, only auspiciousness happens. Whenever you open yourself to the higher principles, only auspiciousness happens. Advaita expresses only Shiva. Means that, Shiva means auspiciousness, possibility, mangala. Whenever you move towards the higher ideas, it’s always auspiciousness.

Participant: I have done many healing, after taking healing initiation from you. Several people got healed.

Swamiji: Then… the whole principle of healing only you are doubting now. Don’t you understand?

Participant: Ya.

Swamiji: The principle on which I initiated you, where you operated, you were successful, then why are you doubting the very principle?

Participant: They are different people. My own people…

Swamiji: NO 😃. See it is like, what you are doing you know.... No no no no no no. See, we both are sitting in the same ghat and you are successful in being stable there, I am successful being stable here. But even then you suspect the area in between. I think there is alligator here. I think there is a Ganga going on here.

See the principles on which you have been initiated, you are successful. That is exactly the same principle I am talking to you now. Understand? See, first you need to know, whether you try to prove right or wrong, Laws of the cosmos is laws. It is actually not based on the uh win-failure or fail-failure or fail-win, no MA. It is based on win-win. It is always. The fellows who started believing win-failure are selfish guys, like Duryodhana, Auh.. There are some guys, who started believing the failure win, like a Gandhari. And there are some fellows, who started believing, failure, failure, Saguni. But life is not any of that. Life is Krishna, win, win, Understand, win win. It is always win-win.

Participant: So if I am healing my father, already I’m so attached and if I think that he is also my extension, uh if something happens to him, so how should I…

Swamiji: What I am saying, before even you start healing, already you planned something is going to happen to him. Understand. First thing, relax from this fear something happens to him. Second, whether he is alive or dead he is part of you. So with this clarity, extend your health, he’ll only become healthy, when he wants to leave, he will beautifully leave without pain and you will not have incompletion of missing him. We are not actually bothered... Chandogya Upnishad beautifully says, “We are not bothered about the husband or wife. We are only bothered about our missing them.” Understand. So you will not have that.

Come on, Yes.

Participant: Swamiji, You mentioned many times that we should talk into listening to other person? How do we do that?

Swamiji: First instruction, listen authentically when the other person speaks. If you listen him that itself will lead him to completion. That’s the first. Second, many time when you start speaking, you will only wanted to vomit out your anger, your incompletion and want him to suffer. Remove that. Be very clear, I am going to talk into the listening of him and get what I want done. Understand. I’ll get what I want done by speaking into his listening.

So be aimed only on that. Don't go for vomiting your anger or incompletion. Don’t plan for how to give him suffering. Most of your conversation, we plan to give suffering to the other person... teach a lesson. Sometime only, giving the other person a lesson is going to make him wake up, but it’s not always. Especially, all the relationships you guys deal and all, you have to be very clear, never to give suffering to the other person.

Participant: Second question? If I established my root pattern, let's say at age 5 and later on I'm able to go back to another powerful remembrance, will there be a different pattern?

Swamiji: I don’t, I don’t think, I don’t think there will be a different pattern; that the same pattern, different incident. Ah. No but the pattern will not vary, incident only will vary. Incident may be different, but the pattern will not vary. mh mh, Ma, one pattern you develop as a root pattern in your life. You will suffer with that same thing only till death, sometime you carry that even after death.

Participant: … non audible

Swamiji: Why means, that's the way your life, its a pattern. You repeat. Understand.

Participant: So you are saying that our root pattern comes from a past life?

Swamiji: Sometimes you do carry, even a one pattern from one life to another life. mh. Some patterns can come from past life.

Participant: How can you identify if it was a past life or the current life pattern?

Swamiji: mh. When you are struggling with it.

Participant: Question inaudible.

Swamiji: Alright but you don’t even need to bother about whether it is a past or present, it has to be completed. See this, uh that dust has to be, garbage has to be removed, whether it is uh from today or yesterday, what it is matter. It has to be removed. That's all, clean it.

Participant: Becoming a catalyst for others, in simple words doing seva to others?

Swamiji: No

Participant: Not seva to others.

Swamiji: First of all you need to be complete. See for a catalyst, being a catalyst, you need to be complete, only then you can become a catalyst. Catalyst means from very powerful zone; many time seva does not happen from powerful zone. It happens for name and fame, recognition, morale, because my father told, my grandmother told, my grandfather left a will if I don’t do this seva, that property will not come to me. See, with a right context, done from the right context.

I always tell that story nah, three mad people wanted to leave the asylum. They went and told the doctor, “We all three of us become alright, please send us back to the house.” Doctors said, “Tomorrow I will have an exam come.” He called all 3 of them next day morning to empty swimming pool. He called that first fellow: “Hey jump.” That fellow jumped and broke his leg. He called the second fellow: “Jump and swim.” That fellow jumped and broke his hand. He called third fellow and told: “Jump and swim.” That fellow said: “No, l will not.” Then doctor said: “Alright I think you are ready to go to the, go to house.” He took him to the office; while they were doing the paper work to release him, doctor asked: “May I know why you did not jump?” He said: “You don’t know. I don’t know swimming.”

See he did not jump. But not because of the right context, wrong context. Understand.

Participant: From childhood we have been taught to donate and to give...

Swamiji: Thats what...See what I am saying. If it is from the powerful space without any other powerlessness, recognition, any other thing, then… or it is

Participant: Completion, only after completion.

Swamiji: Being a catalyst you may do seva. But doing seva you may not be a catalyst. Being a catalyst means, completely whole new personality.

Participant: to be practiced and achieved.

Swamiji: mh mh, I don’t even want to say ‘practice’, to be completed. See a new personality does not need to practiced but if you create completion, that's enough.

Question inaudible

Swamiji: No, no, no, root pattern will be only one, but there may be 7-8 strong patterns; strong patterns may be there but root pattern itself will be only one.

Participant: Swamiji, if marriage is a commitment, when will…. inaudible?

Swamiji: That you’ll only have to decide. 😃(Swamiji laughing) Why are you asking Me, you got married, I did not. 😃 In hinduism marriage doesn’t end. No divorce actually. Only if you take sanyas, you are allowed to take, allowed to take divorce otherwise no divorce in Hinduism. No, no.

Participant: ... not audible

Swamiji: I don’t want to tell you, you should or should not, but I’m telling you, in Hinduism we don’t have the idea of divorce.

Participant: Swamiji, … are incompletions necessarily consistent with the root pattern?

Swamiji: There may be confusion, but they will be different versions of root pattern. They will not be away from root pattern or they will not be completely different from root pattern.

Participant: We all human beings are completely living in lie every moment because inside is something, outside is something, continuously 24 hours a day.

Swamiji: It is not all human beings.

Participant: Sorry, (Swamiji and All laughing) I mean my human beings (all laughing again).

Swamiji: Even in that, in that, people who have done completion in some form or other, they will not have it.

Participant: But general society, they are 24 hours lying

Swamiji: General society is like that only, yes.

Participant: Because when they are outside with society, they are lier, yeah.

Participant: Swamiji you saying do completion only in the mirror?

Swamiji: No. There is a next level of completion. We will be doing it from today or tomorrow. Completing with others. Completion with yourself only. “Swapurnatva Kriya”, “Self completion” only is sitting with the mirror. Completion with other, so that will not, that will be totally different. I’ll give you the instructions. We will see. We will see that.

Participant: You said pain is the most fundamental uh patterns, mental, emotional, psychical … you know (...non audible) What does it mean?

Swamiji: Missing your original space. You see for example, sometime, early morning, you will have a dream as if somebody is chasing you and in few seconds, you will remember, hey it is your dream, it is your dream, then you will wake up. Have you had this experience? So when you remember it is a dream and you need to wake up at that moment, you already associate yourself with the waking state. Understand... but pushing yourself to the waking state, is what is spiritual being. Some time you will understand this whole thing is a physco drama but you will not realize the ultimate. You will not realize you are consciousness. You will not be wake up to that Turiya. So pushing you to that Turiya is a spiritual being.

Participant: Wiper.

Swamiji: Wiper.

Participant: I normally get dreams in the morning and that turns out to be true. Is it my dreams are like they are affecting my future or?

Swamiji: First of all, many people ask Me, “Swamiji, do my dreams have any value?” Your waking state itself has no value. Don’t even... see, that your dreams coming true, I tell you, it is a ..., it is a chained faith you create, Ma.

Participant: No within exactly… I got this image in my

Swamiji: No, no, what I am saying Ma, no no listen, listen, listen Ma. Listen, if you have early morning, do one thing, only one thing, from tomorrow every dream you have in the early morning, note down in the diary.

Participant: not every morning exactly, but a dream … not audible

Swamiji: See that's what. Alright, every dream you have note down, sit just for 60 days. Only two will be real. Around 58 will not become real. But you always tend to connect that two and make a kind of a belief belief in you, your dreams are coming real. See this place which you are seeing, it may not have come in real, it may not have come in dream. Understand. It might have been some kind of memory. See now the completion you feel, whenever you have felt this completion earlier, now that completion is repeating, that is why you feel like this is repeating. Understand. Hmm. At some time when you deeply prayed, when you really meditated, at some moment you would have experienced this completion which you are experiencing now, that only is repeating, not the scene.

Participant: How do you take on more responsibility without worrying about being scared of more work?

Swamiji: What I’m saying, no, no. You need to know responsibility is power, not duty. The moment you take responsibility, power comes to you first, only then work comes. With power you can always work. For example, if I have billion dollar, I can build a city. So, the moment I take the responsibility “I will build a city”, the power happens in me to do it; but you are always afraid, “No, no, no, no, no, no, it's a big work, how can I do it.” But when you decide, the power happens to you is a billion dollar. Understand, that is billion dollar. Then everything falls in place. The most costliest item in the planet earth is vision which happens to you only with responsibility. Vision is the most costly item in the planet earth.

Participant: To take responsibility also it takes courage ...

Swamiji: Intelligent, not even courageous. Just you should not be stupid to beleive responsibility is duty, which is not. See whenever I took responsibility, I have always seen first the power which comes from Me inside, then automatically whatever is needed, this power makes it happen. Understand. See, whenever the power comes, you will see, you will attract so many people, who wants to realize their vision through you, for whom you want to cause their reality, who will cause your reality.

Understand, see for example, Ganga is flowing here, hundred meter away, one kilometer away, even if the rainwater falls, do that rainwater knows the Ganga is here? But simply you will see that will get attracted and come and merge into this Ganga.