Don't act out of powerlessness
Nithyanandeshwara Samarambham Nithyanandeshwara Madhyamam| Asmadhaarcharya Paryantam Vande Guru Parampara||
I welcome all of you with my love and respects.
From tomorrow we will be starting the Nirahara Samyama. Next batch of Nirahara Samyama. Today Nithya Satsang I’ll expand on some more deeper sacred secrets about completion. Listen, whenever incompletions erupt out in your life, means, whenever powerlessness is happening in your life, whenever you are possessed by powerlessness, confusion, agitation, doesn’t know what to do, restlessness; all restlessness is powerlessness. Whenever the powerlessness possess you, please don’t take any decisions in your life. You break relationships, you break businesses. you break business partnerships, you break families, you break life itself, when you are powerless.
Powerless moments, powerless moments, in the life, please understand, powerless moments in the life creates more and more powerless moments in the life. Even if you are in love if you want to start the new life marriage make the decision of marriage when you feel powerful, not when you feel powerless. Both of you are really feeling you will add to each other's life. Both of you are feeling empowered by each others presence, only when you feel the other is going to empower you, other is making you powerful. Make the decision of being together. Not when you miss the other. It is unfortunate all marriage decisions are made in hell. Please be very clear, marriages are made in heaven is a saying not reality. It’s a poem, not reality.
Usually when you miss the other person, when you miss; Oh without her, my life, oh no. Without him, my life, oh no. It is too much. I don’t think I’ll be able to handle it at all. No.
When you miss the other person, you think and you decide, to get married. That’s where the whole problem starts. Please listen. That is where the whole problem starts. Do not make any decision when you are in the space of powerlessness. When you are in the space of powerlessness there is only one decision you have to make is to come out of powerlessness. No other decision. No other decision should be made. When you are in powerlessness, any decision made, leads to more and more powerlessness. More and more suffering. More and more suffocation.
Understand, the marriage decisions made while you are powerless is nothing but simply, the decision made in the hell. Because it is done powerlessly, because the decision is made in powerless zone, it leads to more and more powerlessness.
I tell you. Even if you take up challenges in your life, out of powerlessness, be very sure you will be destroyed and you will be into the deep powerless space. Listen. Even if the challenges are taken out of powerless mode, you will only be more and more powerlessness. Even if you win the challenge, because winning the challenge happened due to the drive out of powerlessness. See when you win a challenge out of powerlessness, you may win that one challenge, but you’ve already developed a pattern of taking challenge out of powerlessness. That’s a problem.
- 11:05 Continues to speak in Tamil?
I was told, a lady and a lawyer both of them are sitting in airplane. Lawyer was feeling really restless, as usual, he wants to prove his superiority. He kept on bugging the lady. That let us play the game of intelligence. The lady was refusing. He kept on kept on, finally he said, “If lady doesn’t answer lawyer question she has to only pay five dollar. But if he lawyer doesn’t answer he will pay fifty dollar.” The lady thought, ok because he is continuously bugging. He won’t let me rest/ sleep. She said, “Alright.” So the decision was made. If the lady is unable to answer, she has to pay five dollar. If the lawyer is unable to answer, he has to pay fifty dollar. Lawyer was really confident that he won’t lose. Finally the lady reluctantly accepted. The lawyer first asked, “What’s the distance between the earth and the nearest star?” Without saying a word the lady handed him five dollars. Then the lady asked, “What goes up hill with 10 leg and comes back down hill with 15 legs?” Well the lawyer looked puzzled. He took several hours looking up everything he could on his laptop, even placing numerous air to ground phone, phone calls trying to find the answer. Finally angry and frustrated he gave up and paid fifty dollar to that lady. The lady put the fifty dollars into her purse without a comment. Lawyer asked, “Come on, no you answer, what is the answer to your question?” Without saying a word the lady gave him five dollar.
Understand. Even if you take up challenges out of powerlessness, restlessness, it’ll only be leading to more and more powerless space. You will not understand that nitty ..., nitty gritties, the practical impacts of the challenges you are getting into. If you get into the challenge out of powerless space. I know. I have seen many ghosts, the dead people, please understand I am talking a national channel. So I’m talking very responsively. People who have committed suicide. I have seen many of them. They take the decision of committing suicide out of one moment of powerlessness. But the poor fellows have committed such worse blunder of suicide. After that, forever, they suffer with powerlessness. Forever they suffer into powerlessness.
- 16:47 Swamiji translates in Hindi
It is very important, any decision, whether you getting into some challenge, or you getting into a relationship, or you’re getting into a business decision, or you getting into affair. You getting into anything, please see to it you are in the space of powerfulness. Completion. Usually in powerlessness, even if you commit suicide, you’ll escape, no. You only get into the worse powerless space. I’ve seen. I have seen. People only get into worse powerless space when they act, when they do anything out of powerlessness.
Bhagavan denies Arjuna, even his decision of sanyas, because he took it, Arjuna took it out of powerlessness. He accepts Arjuna’s decision to fight because he took the decision out of powerfulness. Whether it is sanyas or fight, whatever, powerlessness, powerlessness never leads your life to any next step. And this is my important message to all of our Gurukul, Vidyalaya’s. Kids should be trained, their nervous system should be trained, not even once they should be allowed to experience powerlessness. Understand, if you’re nervous system has never experienced powerlessness only then you are called Balasanyasi. Sanyasi by birth. Even once you experience powerlessness, now you are a bitten fruit. The system should never experience powerlessness.
- 20:42 Hindi
Even when you throw challenges. Even when you ask yourself, even when you ask yourself to make the decisions about life, to make decisions in your job, in your career, in your profession, in your spiritual practice. Decide everything out of powerfulness. Don’t decide anything out of your powerlessness.
Powerlessness is sin in the life. Powerfulness is the Punya merit of life. Whenever you make any decision out of powerlessness you strengthen the root pattern of powerlessness. You strengthen the power of making decisions out of powerlessness.
22:43-22:52 Swamiji speaking Hindi
Continuously again and again and again, look into the reasons for your powerlessness. Why you are in conflict? Why you are in powerless space? Why you are in the zone of conflicts?
23:46-24:24 Swamiji speaking Hindi
You’s try to sleep when you are wide awake. You try to wake up when you are sleepy. Very unfortunately the human beings, go to bed wide awake! Try to get up fully sleepy. Both are because of powerlessness. Every night, if you feel wide awake not feeling sleepy don’t worry. Sit and do completion. I tell you completion is, ten time equilent to sleeping. If you do half an hour completion, it is equalent to. Do at least….thirty minutes completion is equalent to at least ten times more. Means five hours of sleeping. Thirty minutes of completion if five hours of sleeping. That amount of rest and energy comes to you system. So only thing I wanted to request is, even if you are not feeling sleepy, just stretch your leg and do completion, completion, completion.
As long as you feel sleepy, as long as you feel, tired, don’t worry. Drop this wrong pattern of, oh I am not sleeping tomorrow morning. I’ll feel tired. That's a big pattern. There is no such thing as you don't sleep at the night, you will feel tired in the morning. That’s the wrong pattern. It's a wrong pattern. So break that pattern! Break that pattern. Do completion in the night. Do completion in the night. Even if you don't feel sleepy, I tell you, morning when you wake up you will be complete and powerful.
27:06-27:28 Swamiji speaking Hindi.
Completion not only leads to health, leads to higher and higher space of existence. Completion makes you understand you are connected with the whole universe. Means the essence of 28:10 Vishes Advaita. Completion makes you understand you are deeply connected to the Para Atma. Means the experience of 28:21 Dwayta. Completion makes you understand, you are the ultimate. The essence of Advaita. Please understand, if you just churn your body and mind with completion you will experience the thinking of Sankya, cognition of Sankya. Vedanta psychology, yogic physiology, logic of 29:01 Nayevadecheka. Please listen. If you churn your body and mind with completion, your cognition will become the cognition. Cognition of 29:19 Sankya.
Your psychology will become Vedantic. Your physiology will become yogic. Your logic will become 29:36- Nayia Vadaysheka. Your actions will be the divine spiritual rituals, 29:42-29:43 Karma Ganta, means 29:45 Puromemahansta. Just practicing completion alone will make you 29:52-29:53 Shakdanshena Shasthre. In all six philosophies, you will be master. You will be living all the six philosophies. Sankia, churn your being with deeper and deeper, completions.
Clear your being out of all incompletions. Many time, strongly you feel you are not qualified for life. That feeling is responsible for all the anxiety you go through. Even when unexpected things, stand in front of you, you convert miracles into accidents with incompletions. You convert accidents into miracles, with completion. When you handle with completion you can convert even worst accidents of your lifes into miracles. Like what I did, all the prosecution happened around me, I converted it into popularity. And sometime, even the miracles happening in front of you, if you handle it with incompletion you'll make that into an accident. I have seen people, even by winning lottery, they bring unexpected suffering and tortues into their life.
They bring chaos and confusion in their life. A lady goes to the local pastor and asks, “Sir I have a problem, I won hundred-million dollar lottery”. Pastor asked, “ What is the problem in it, great news? God bless you.” She said, “ No, my husband has a very weak heart. If I give this good news to him, he may die. I don't know how to, share this news to him. You have to help me to slowly convey this news to him without he having any heart attack or health problems.” Pastor says, “Don't worry about that. I can handle, bring him.” Slowly the pastor starts talking to the husband. He says, “ You are blessed by God. If God showers you with wealth what will you do?” The husband was not able to understand, he was puzzled. Then slowly after preparing the husband. Pastor opens up the subject and says, “If suddenly God gives you hundred-million dollar through lottery, what will you do?” The husband without waiting for a moment he says, “I'll give have of that to your church.” Pastor drops and dies.
Pastor dropped dead. Understand, out of powerlessness if you handle, even miracles can become accidents! When you look. When you deal out of powerlessness even miracles can be accidents. If you handle with powerfulness, even accidents can be miracles.
35:05-35:34 Swamiji speaking Hindi
Completion, changes your whole cognition. Into the Sankya, Sankya means, please understand. Sankya means reality. What exists as reality, is perceived by you as it is without the interference, interpretations, perversions created by your powerlessness. So Sankya is very important, Sankya philosophy, understand Sankya philosophy, is the philosophy of reality.
Ultimate existentialism, completion will lead you to experience that Sankya philosophy, Sankya the reality, the existential, reality 37:17 Tattva Shatia, Shatia Tattva. Completion awakens your kundalini. Completion makes you experience the Shankya of life.
37:47-38:07 Swamiji speaking Hindi.
Essence of today’s satsang, out of powerlessness, don't do anything! The moment you understand you are in powerless space, do only one thing to get out of the powerlessness. Nothing else should be done. Nothing else should be done. Don't take decisions. Don't get into affairs. Don't take the decisions of business, marriage. Don't take the decisions of breaking, seperation. Don't take the decision of marriage or divorce. Don't take the decision of creating a relation, creating a business or withdrawing from a business.
The moment you feel you are in powerlessness, just give a stay for life and get out of powerless space. Til you get out of powerless space don't make any decision. Get out of powerless space. Run the life out of completion. Run the life out of completion. Again and again and again and again bring yourself to the space of completion. You will live the life of Sankya. Life of eternal bliss. Nithyananda.
40:01-40:35 Swamiji speaking Hindi.
Let you all achieve, experience, live, express, radiate, share, and explode in eternal bliss. Nithyananda.
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- Date
- 31 July 2013
- Place
- Bengaluru Aadheenam, Bharat
- Series
- Inner Awakening
- Language
- English
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- 31 July 2013
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- 42 min
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