“KAILASH YATRA, LIVING THE TATTVAS - KULAGURU & SATGURU TUESDAY, 21ST…”

KAILASH YATRA, LIVING THE TATTVAS - KULAGURU & SATGURU TUESDAY, 21ST MAY 2013

I welcome you all with my love and respects. I will expand and respond on your questions today also, so that you can internalize the four tattvas.

1) Question: I have been dealing with this question for a long time now. I cannot stand people who complain all the time, and who always blame others for what happens to them. So I turn my back on them. In other words I let them down, which is exactly the contrary of what you teach us. I have been told that I have the shortest fuse around. How to strengthen my nervous system and develop patience? How can I create an inner space of love, compassion and pure listening?

Swamiji: I am surprised that you are telling, ‘I cannot stand people who complain all the time and always blame others for what happens to them’! Life is like this only! Whatever you give, comes back to you! It comes back to you! Sometimes, it takes a little time. Sometimes, it comes back immediately.

I will give you only one technique. Don’t bother about developing compassion, love and all that. Just develop pure listening. That is all you need. Nothing else. The work that you are doing, do that itself intensely. If you sit intensely, you will know the next statement I am going to utter. Only then you are in listening. So, develop that listening. You will experience, you will realize the space of patience. I tell you, having both intense passion and tremendous patience is living enlightenment. Sometimes, your inauthenticity shows like patience inside you. If you believe that, you are cheated. Over! Sometimes your passion does not have the patience. Again you waste the life. You should avoid both. Intense passion and tremendous patience! Intense passion and tremendous patience!

I just wanted to tell you one thing. You are not shortest fuse. Don’t worry. There are some more fuses which go off the moment they see someone! So you don’t have to develop anything else. You have the right nervous system. You have everything else. You just need to develop a little more listening. That is all!

2) Question: How can we measure that we are living Integrity with integrity, Authenticity with authenticity, Responsibility with responsibility? What are the parameters? How can we improve and strengthen the four tattvas, and how can we recognize the peak?

Swamiji: You will feel the completion and the space of positivity. It means, whatever you utter will simply become reality, and you will utter only the words which will become reality. See, you will be in such a space of positivity. First of all, there won’t be negativity in you, and you will only utter the words which will become reality. Your words will simply become reality. The space of positivity! If you are living Authenticity with authenticity; you just know, anything is possible in your life. Whenever a thought comes, you will know it is possible. How many of you still feel, when a thought comes, ‘No, it is not possible for me?’ Then you are all not living Authenticity with authenticity. When you live Authenticity with authenticity, you simply know that any thought comes to you, any thought you give birth to, ‘It is possible!’ Whether I want to do it or not, I can decide, but it is possible. When you live Responsibility with responsibility, you will feel that you that are the Lord of the Universe! Everything is at your disposal. Everything is at your disposal. If you are really enriching, you will live in such a sweet undefinable space that you will know you are in the space of enlightenment.

Yesterday, somebody came and asked me in the energy darshan, ‘If I feel that I myself don’t have significant shifts in my inner space, how can I enrich others?’ That is exactly the reason I want you to enrich! Start enriching. You will see a significant shift in your inner space. You have such a self-doubting, agnostic pattern inside you! Start talking to people. Share the four tattvas with them. Help them to do completion. You are not working for my end. Whatever I need for my life, I have more than that. Through enriching, I am not asking you to work for me. I am asking you to work for you. Your life has nothing which can add to my life. My life has everything which can add to your life. I am not talking out of arrogance or ego, please understand! I am just straightaway stating the facts.

Your enriching will cause two things. First of all, your constant doubting logic will be broken. You will experience a significant shift. By talking about those principles again and again, you will expand, you will be inspired to live, you will raise you. The easiest way to practice authenticity is to talk about it to others. You will simply become authentic, I tell you! Go on talking about it. Enrich people about these four tattvas. You will be enriched in different-different ways. You will discover different-different ways to live authenticity, imbibe authenticity. When you enrich, you will see a powerful shift in your inner space. Enriching is literally empowering the other person. Whenever you empower the other person, you will simply be empowered. You will be empowered.

One guy goes to a Zen master and says, ‘I am confused. I am in doubt. I have doubt about the whole thing.’ The master says beautifully, ‘Start giving clarity to others!’ The master is right! When you start giving clarity to others, you will see that you get that clarity! You get that clarity!

3) Question: How to complete with someone who thinks it is always the other person’s fault, and he is lying all the time? ’

Swamiji: Take the responsibility for others’ inauthenticity also. Have patience. Do the completion again and again. Again and again sit with the person and talk to him. One good thing about the lying pattern is, you cannot continuously lie, because you cannot remember the same statements again and again! Understand? With lying, one big problem is that you cannot remember the same thing again and again. When you are telling the truth, one great benefit is that you don’t need to remember anything! Because truth is truth is truth. How many of you try to repeat the same lie, but forgot the facts or numbers and got caught? One good thing about the lying persons is that they won’t be able to lie continuously. So, you go and sit with them and complete again and again; you will simply see that they themselves will find the loopholes in their lying pattern. You don’t need to poke holes. Their own inner space will poke holes. They will collapse! When people have a lying pattern, their own mind will make them understand that they are lying. They are lying. Have a little patience and start doing completion again and again. I tell you, there is nobody who cannot be melted by the completion process. Even a stone will melt when you complete with it again and again and again.