Intimate, Integrated, Authentic Personal Relationship With Guru Is Enlightenment (Paramashivoham℠ 20 Dec 2018 to 10 Jan 2019)
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nithyānandeśvara paramashiva samārambhām nithyānandeśvari parashakti madhyamām | asmat āchārya paryantām vande guru paramparām ||
I welcome you all with my love and respects.
(Devotional offering to Devi Meenakshi)
Today I’ll expand on one of the most powerful \>\>\>no audio\<\<\< of enlightenment and power manifestation. Understand yesterday suddenly, before giving the energy darshan, my body went through such an intense samadhi. So much Paramashiva was manifesting. I could not even coherently talk in a language which you all understand and relate. And, finally I did not do the individual darshan and I was in the samadhi. Some of the important things revealed in my system, I wanted to share with all of you. \>\>\>long interruption and no audio\<\<\<
See, yesterday when I was in the samadhi, some of the important revelations Paramashiva revealed to me, I’ll share with you all. Understand, I was looking at some quickest, easiest way of transmitting enlightenment. Every time I am in samadhi, I am only looking at most efficient, easiest way of transmitting enlightenment to all of you. One of the most important revelation I had, understand, very simple, straightforward - it’s my personal intimate relationship with Arunagiri Yogishwara and my Gurus. That made enlightenment possible for me. Understand. Why the modern day unconscious materialists, chronic capitalists, irrational atheists, anti-Hindu elements, Hindu phobia people attack Gurus and Guru-disciple relationship? I tell you, Guru-disciple relationship can do something to you - so beautiful, permanent which cannot be shaken by any amount of torture from the external world. Any amount of torture they can do, they have done to me. My Guru bhakti or my commitment to my Gurus or what my Gurus have taught me or given me as a vision, neither it is changing nor it is getting distracted or even the intensity is not coming down!
Listen. People who want to enslave you, make you as a slave, use you as an object for their luxury, comforts, selfish interest and their own vested interest - do not want you to be grounded in any relationship, understand. In any relationship if you are grounded, you will discover you. These whole marital laws of the modern humanity is with the context of divorce, understand. Still I will not be able to convince the modern humanity, modern society. I am born and brought up in tradition where divorce and second marriage is almost a taboo. Less than five percent the village I was born and brought up, only less than five percent of people remarry or have second marriage. That also in that five percent, four percent it is because through the first marriage they don’t have kids. That’s all. No other reason. Divorce is almost non-existent. \>\>\>no audio\<\<\< I need to explain, understand.
In the modern day, the idea of freedom is taught to you to enslave you. Listen carefully. You are brainwashed with the idea choices are freedom, so you can be slave forever people who provide you choices. Listen carefully. Freedom is your Consciousness ability to exists, Svatantra in Sanskrit. In Hindu tradition Svatantra means, ability for the existence of “Sva,” not choices. I tell you, the raw brutal, mad addiction to choices made people physically, mentally, psychologically, emotionally broken. The number of disease you carry in your body and mind and emotions. Appa! Horrible, terrorising in the name of freedom. The concept of choices as being taught to humanity in the name of freedom - the whole mess.
Understand when I grew up, I still remember the depth of relationships. If the kids do some mistakes in my village, not only mother or father, not only uncle or relative, even the villagers, other elders can directly slap the kid. They will! I cannot imagine that now. Even parents \>\>\>no audio\<\<\< 911. In Bharat, also it started - 108. Understand, the depth of relationship is constantly getting destroyed. People are becoming individuals and psychologically becoming orphans. That is being taught to you as maturity. What a mess! I have seen my classmates who wants to try smoking bidi or cigarette. They cannot buy from the local shops any bidi or cigarette because the owner, he will slap the kids directly. He will sell for adults but not for the kids. So, these kids have to befriend the shop owner’s kids who sell the bidi cigarette, those shop owner’s kids. I have seen these street corner shops, my friends will befriend his son. That kid will sneek, steal the bidi, the cigarette and share it with these boys. Because, even though the owner sells bidi and cigarette, he will be so strict about protecting the kids.
I tell you, we were all brought up by the whole village! I am so happy, I was brought up by the whole village. I was enriched, empowered, strengthened by the whole village! One grandfather taught me how to make garlands. One grandmother taught me how to wear a saree, put the saree on the deities. One uncle taught me how to make thoranam (தோரணம், tōraṇam). We were empowered, enriched, strengthened by the whole village! Whole village own us. Whole village brought us up. What a depth of relationship. I tell you, I have seen this large joined family. Kids and women will go to different houses for functions, celebrations, festivals, gatherings. If they have slipped their… I know how their dignity is maintained. I have never heard something child abuse till I started my public life and went to outside Bharat. I have not even heard the concept, understand! It’s not that I did not go through, of course, I did not went through child abuse is different. Not only I have not gone through, I have not even heard this is possible! But in the modern day, that anti-Hindu narratives are trying to project as if it was there and not recorded. No! If something was there, it cannot missed. A person like me who observes everything. My observation capacity is too much. Nothing can escape, I have three eyes. I have, I hadn’t have, my Third Eye is awakened when I was three or four. Nothing can escape me.
I really wanted all of you to know, that depth of relationship itself is destroyed in the modern day. Social, legal, political system make sure you are rootless and you are orphan so you can be controlled, enslaved, understand. These marital laws constantly encouraging divorce, that idea of freedom in the name of choice. Understand the idea of freedom, false idea of freedom: choices are freedom is the false idea of freedom. Your ability to live the life is freedom, not choices. Alright, all the varieties of food you have but you are diabetic, what to do. All the multiple varieties of sweets are there in front of you but you are diabetic, what to do. That is what is happening. Everything is there in front of you but you are not grounded enough to enjoy it. Most stupid exploiting idea taught to humanity is choices are freedom.
Oh, if you husband screams - divorce. Wife did shopping little more than you expected - divorce! Father is asking, “Why are you coming late every night?” Then bye, I am going and living on my own. I found my apartment. Relationships have become shallow. All governments, all political system, all legal system, all social system wants to destroy the depths of relationship in your life so you will feel continuously you are orphan, you can be exploited, enslaved, understand. A tight knit join family cannot be enslaved. They will be a small miniature government on their own. They will be a self sustaining system on their own. I can tell you, beautiful self sustaining system of Hinduism, that every village was self sustaining because of our amazing tight knit deep relationships centered families. Two guys are discussing popular family trend, sex, marriage and family value. Will said, “I did not sleep with my wife before we got married. Did you?” Larry replied, “I am not sure. What was her maiden name?” Miss the joke it’s okay, don’t miss the laughter.
I wanted you to understand, if you are grounded even in one relationship beautifully, you will discover you. I tell you, why we don’t \>\>\>not audible\<\<\< puppy love you know? Puppy love introduces what gender we are. You realise your gender, you mold your gender based on puppy love. I am so fortunate my puppy love was Arunagiri Yogishwara. Listen carefully. You carry the DNA of people whoever you have physical relationship. You carry the bio memory of the people to whoever you have psychological fallen in love with. \>\>\>long interruption with no audio\<\<\< Sorry for the technical glitch.
Listen. The gurukul system in Sanatana Hindu Dharma: when it’s grow, evolve to become man or a woman or matured adults - during the adolescence, they are kept in a separate place. Men, sorry, male bodies separate, female body separate, and, in the gurukuls. The reason is with whom you fall in love first, only base on that you are going to discover your gender. I tell you, dating before twenty one, physical relationship before twenty one is the worst destruction. You will never realise your true gender. You will live and die in the confusion and conflict and contradictions. It’s like a before puppy becomes full dog, He is killed and embalmed. You think it’s cute? He is dead! Same way, before your sexual identity grows - any interaction externally is like killing your sexual identity and embalming. You are going to live with the dead identity, understand. Getting grounded in every relationship and integrity to relationship. Understand I tell you, till twenty one if you manage all your ups and downs and moods, attractions, attachments, hatred, withdrawal, guilt, everything related to this hormonal ups and downs - you will have the maturity to respect people. You will not behave cheaply - drive in marriage and drive out divorce.
You will not treat even your body so cheaply. That depth with which you will deal relationships and your body, you will be so grounded, beautiful, matured being and maturity will not be an imposed morality. It will be such a natural existence, natural way of existence. In the name of freedom, the false idea choices are freedom, with that one thought current - the whole demonic ideas are pushed into the humanity and humanity is destroyed. The roots of humanity is destroyed. Everyone now is unsettled, feels orphan, doesn’t feel like belongs to somebody, belongs to something. That need to feel belonging to something is such an important need for getting grounded, being rooted. So unfortunate. So unfortunate. Whole humanity feels misplaced. It’s not in one civilisation, one country, one place, everywhere I am seeing. Everyone feels they are in wrong place - their job, their relationships, their family, career, everything. Understand, it is not about things outside. It is about the cognitions you carry.
Choices are not freedom. You ability to be grounded, your integrity is freedom. Integrity is Svatantra - freedom, not choices. The moment you start believing choices are freedom, then you become so cunning, selfish. Then whole world is here only to be exploited by you for your personal gain. It is nothing but all about sucking, exploiting. If you understand integrity is freedom, you will be grounded so beautifully. Every relationship will have such an amazing value, understand. Even if I scream in the messenger, my aadheenavasis put “like” for that. Appa! \>\>\>Tamil\<\<\< I tell you, you would have mess up something serious and I will be ferocious thinking I am Kalabhairava and dancing on the fire. All the bad words I know in Tamil, I will be typing in English. And they will put the “love” symbol for that. I tell you, with intense relationships, even ferociousness is sweet, because, you know he is in relationship with you, that’s enough. That is enough. Then you know one day you are going to be him. Because in normal relationship, you start with the quest of, “Will you marry me?” With Master it is, “Will you become me?” So as long as the relationship is there, guarantee that you will become me.
I really want to tell you, the real enemy of the stable society, the main reason why the society becomes instable - not prostitution, drugs. Not any of that. But, superficial relationships. The relationships where there is no integrity and depth. In all the Hindu Nations, alcohol...of course, Hindu alcohol is different. It doesn't destroy your body. The Somarasa puts you in high but never weakens your health or disturbs your system, internal organs. I commit with you guys, I will decode the Somarasa and reveal it to the world. It’s very healthy. So I’ll reveal it to the world. In Hindu Nation, those days in Hindu civilisations - Somarasa existed, prostitution was legal. But it never destablised the society. Superficial relationships destabilises the society.
I can never imagine parents not being taken care in the old age. Because in my family system, till death the eldest person is going to have the key in his control. The elders are never unwanted or undated or retired. There is not concept of retirement. When you become old, physical activities are stop but still you continue to be the power center. You are constantly needed till the death. And even after death, your blessings are needed. That is what is the Hindu civilisation, understand. Elders, parents are needed even after their death! In the modern day society, neither parents feel they have to earn and keep wealth for kids nor kids feel they need parents as part of their life. In Bharat, I can never imagine a father not saving for their children. Any responsible father leaves lots of wealth to their kids, and, this idea my last cheque should bounced can never fly in Bharat. That is why the western economical ideas, the modern day economical ideas can never penetrate into Bharat. Sorry, again mistake. They can never penetrate Hindu civilisation.
Hindu civilisation is the richest economy. Because the modern day economical ideas cannot penetrate Hindu civilisation. Hindu economy has three layer. One layer, which the man of the family earns which government knows. Second layer, the man of the family earns but government does not know. The third layer, women of the family keeps which neither man of the family nor government knows. It’s a three tier economy. Very grounded. Very grounded. Very strong economy. Still in Hindu society, borrowing is taboo. In Tamil there is a beautiful depiction of Ramayanam called Kamba Ramayanam where Ravana is about to be defeated. His anxiety, fear, the way he collapse is described by the poet, author; he uses the example \>\>\>Tamil\<\<\< It means person who has borrowed money, how his heart collapses - that is the way the Ravana collapse. Actually in the modern day, you should change it “the man who gave money, how he collapse.” That is the way the Ravana collapse, not the person who took the money. \>\>\>Tamil\<\<\< you have to change the word.
Borrowing was taboo in Hindu civilisation. You are suppose to be responsible for your economy. Means, you can’t be slave, understand. The whole vision of Hindu civilisation is moksha, liberation based. You are grounded but liberated, unexploitable. You can’t be enslaved. This modern day anti-Hindu terrorists are abusing this Varna Svadharma. I tell you, in real Hindu Varna Svadharma, I will never bother about which varna I belong to, I am ready to live any number of births. But not in this modern day so-called stupid the anti-Hindu terrorists, atheist terrorists society. All varnas felt they belong to that, their group - Him. So much of groundedness, completion, fulfillment to the level of responsibility they are ready to take. They had everything needed. Understand now, all the corruption, robbing everything is because Chandalas who don’t want to take the responsibility but want to grab the power. They go on abusing the Hindu Varna Svadharma.
I wanted all of you to know, even though I am not a Brahmana, I’ll strongly support Varna Svadharma. The Hindu Nation Paramashiva is creating will follow Varna Svadharma. It’ll follow Varna Svadharma as per Manu. If Bharat has declared Manu, Manusmriti as their law after independence, now Bharat would have been the top most world power. Top power center in the world. It is unfortunate Manu was not declared as Constitution after independence. Anyhow, the Hindu Nation Paramashiva is creating, Manu is the Constitution, Manu is the law. Manu, Yajnavalkya, Parashara - there are thirty six dharmasutras and smritis available. Of course there were many, thirty six only we were able to gather. We have collected already all the thirty six. That thirty six forms the dos and don’ts of Hindu Nation. Right and wrong, CRPC, judicial system, social system of Hindu Nation is these dharmashastras and smritis. With Paramashiva’s grace, I commit with Vedamata and humanity, I’ll show you enlightened civilisation - how it functions, crime free. It is possible.
You will be surprise Paramashiva gives prayaschitta (प्रायश्चित्त, prāyaścitta). For so many crimes He give this prayaschitta - thousand and eight times chant the Astra Mantra. You may think, “Ooh God, if this is what is the punishment, then maybe we will not be able to control the crime.” No! I am telling you, if you know how to rub the right side of the person and eliminate laziness and exploitative nature - you do not need punishment, you need only prayaschitta. That ground on which human beings are standing, if that is made clear for them, if they fall, you just need to make them stand back. That’s all. But because the ground itself is not clear, people don’t know where to stand, where to align. That is when you need heavy punishments. I tell you, our Hindu Nation will be the no incarceration nation, no army, no incarceration. No punishments, only prayaschitta. If somebody does something out of integrity, only prayaschitta. I am telling you, it is possible. It is time we need to show to the world humanity needs healing, grounding; not punishment. It needs detoxification, not punishment.
I am telling you, many time many of my aadheenavasis they throw tantrum, they are almost like my citizen only na. They throw tantrum, all I do is just keep quiet and allow the detoxification. I tell them, “Take haritaki.” For all tantrum, detoxification is the solution. The parasites in the stomach, the distress in the intestine system, if that is released - I tell you, literally enema releases depression from your body. Because when the intestine is distress, it sends intense depression signals to brain, distress signals to brain. If stomach is detoxify, intestine is detoxify through enema - suddenly you will see depression disappears. Detoxification is all you need to change the criminal behaviour. Please understand, I am not talking impractical. I am going to make it into reality. I am, I know what I am talking. Because I’ve worked with thousands of human beings, if not lakhs past few years. I have seen good-bad, right-wrong. The most dedicated disciples and the greatest traitors.
That way my life is very rich. Very rich, I can make a real beautiful movie with all the navarasas. My autobiography will not be very plain curd rice. No! It’ll be amazing navarasa. It does all the rasas. It will be a trailer movie. I really wanted to make a web serial. We are working on it. We will start “Avatars,” “Avatar Tells All.” That will be the title “Avatar Tells All.” I’ll make web series on autobiography. I have seen all kinds of people but I tell you, after being so much attacked, persecuted, how much of hate speech me and my sangha, my community faced. Not only they try to make Hinduism illegitimate using me. They even try to separate me and Hinduism. “Oh, he is not Hindu. He’s separate cult.” Oh God! When I am alive and practicing everything of Hinduism, so grounded in Hinduism - they are trying to put… they have tried everything, they tried everything. Very frustrated because nothing work out. Everything like boomerang on them. Coming year is the worst year for all the Nithyananda haters. Nithyananda haters, either drop hatred or you are going to have the worst year ahead. For all Nithyananda’s disciples, Nithyananda sympathises, Nithyananda lovers - you are going to have the best year ahead. You have the best year ahead.
I tell you, I have seen enough human beings. With that rich strength and experience, I am telling you. Relationship becoming shallow, social, legal, moral, political systems, making relationships weak and shallow. All the laws are made to weaken the groundingness in the relationship. You are constantly being taught breaking relationships are cute, that is freedom. The endurability level is so drastically reduced, even a small friction is used to call off the relationship. Not only spouses - husband and wife, even the father, mother, brother, sister. You are not just widow the husband widow or wife widow. We have father widow, mother widow, brother widow, sister widow, son widow, Guru widow. I can never train even one disciple the way I got training from my Gurus. I don’t have a single disciple, I am announcing it openly. I don’t have a single disciple with whom I can have that depth of relationship my Gurus had with me. So unfortunate.
The whole humanity has become so shallow. The falling of the intensity of the relationships. I tell you, the moment you don’t know the intense relationships, you don’t know integrity. You don’t know that depths of your existence. My yoga Guru will make me do Surya Namaskara from sunrise to sunset. And in Tiruvannamalai hot sunny region, the sun stays awake for more than fourteen hours, not twelve hours. And another one thing, this fellow has the power to make the time more. But I just know, there is no other choice. The choicelessness made me to go to the depths of the situation and relationships where I was put. That made me who I am now. Just like that I was able to lost weight, manage body, play with my body as I want, understand. Ten inches and almost twenty kg I lost all in one month. Maybe forty days, I don’t know. That’s all. You can see, just like that body gets detoxified. Still twenty hours a day, I can comfortably work happily. Thousands of decisions I can take. I can put thousands intention and I can be tension free. Sitting as Paramashanta, I can make thousands work. Just because of what they have done to my system, my Gurus have done to my system.
And I tell you, I was able to go through this whole training because of my depth of relationship with my Gurus. Otherwise, even if I am forced, I could have fallen into depression or denial, complete saying no. Fortunately, nothing of that has happened. I am still working sincerely to reproduce the ecosystem with which Paramashiva held me when I landed. When I landed, He held me with such a beautiful ecosystem, the spiritual incubator called Arunachala. That ecosystem, that spiritual incubator is what I am trying to create as Nithyananda Gurukul. That depth of the personal relationship with the Master is directly equivalent to your enlightenment and power manifestation. That’s all. Simple one line essence of not today’s satsang, all my satsangs I delivered, delivering, going to deliver: depth of integrity, intimacy, authenticity you have in the relationship with your Guru is directly equivalent to the enlightenment and the power manifestation you will be having in your life. That’s it.
People who want to enslave you, constantly tell you, “Aah! Parents are exploiting you,” “Your wife is exploiting you,” “Husband is exploiting you,” Brother is exploiting you,” “Sister is exploiting you,” “Teachers are exploiting you, “Finally, your Guru is exploiting you.” To teach you all these, they uproot you, make you feel orphan, misplace. So when you are orphan, they can exploit you. I tell you, ground yourself with your mother, with your father, with every relationship you had in your life - bring completion. Detoxify those relationship. Let all the incompletions leave. Ground yourself with every relationship even if they are not alive anymore, connect with them and bring completion. Bringing completion in every relationship will bring depth in your integrity and that will bring depth between you and me. The real personal intimate relationship between Guru and disciple will flower, when you had a complete completion and groundedness, integrity in all your other past relationships. I have seen a boy or girl who had the best relationship with their father and mother, when they come and settle down with me in the aadheenam - the kind of the stability they radiate, I know I can trust them, they are part of me.
Understand, completion with all relationships brings groundedness and you realise your real gender. I tell you, the relationships, its depth, its attitude decide the gender you are going to develop in you. Blessed are those who build the gender of Guru in them with their intimate, integrated relationship with the Guru. When you cherish intimate, integrated, authentic relationship with Guru - you grow in a gender called transcendental gender. Because He is transcendental gender, you will grow in that same transcendental gender. That is what I call Cosmic union, Oneness. Parama Tantra is Parama Svatantra. The relationships you have decides the gender in which you are growing. Gender is not static, it’s dynamic. Fools are those who believe gender is static. As long as your body is dynamic, gender is dynamic. How food creates or heals diseases in you, the love and relationships and the persons who you cherish decides or heal gender in you. Understand, how your weight is changing, it is dynamic. Your weight, your blood pressure, your sugar level - how your body is dynamic, same way, your gender is dynamic. If you think your gender is static, you are fool!
Your gender is dynamic is the truth. Based on the food you eat, your health changes. Based on the love you eat, the thought currents you eat - your gender changes. The most sweetest, intimate, personal, integrated, authentic relationship with Guru makes you grow into transcendental gender. That is directly equivalent to the enlightenment and power manifestation you will have, understand. Modern day tons of researches are already revealing, the person with whom you have physical relationship, you carry all their DNA and you get impacted by all their DNAs - men or women. Same way, the person with whom you cherish phycological relationship - you carry and get impacted by all their bio memories. The Guru who is literally divine, Paramashiva with whom you have intimate, integrated, personal, authentic relationship - you carry His very DNA, very bio memory and very powers, enlightenment - bio energy itself. Enlightenment or power manifestation is all about intimacy, integrity, authenticity you have with your Guru, the personal relationship with your Guru. That’s all. That’s all. All the best things in my life happened because of my intense intimate, integrated, personal relationship with my Gurus.
So this is the essence of not just today’s satsang, in all the satsangs I’ve delivered, delivering, going to deliver: intimate, integrated, authentic personal relationship with Guru is enlightenment - state, space, powers, being and Superconsciousness of Paramashiva.
With this I bless you all. Let’s all radiate with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching, Causing, Living Shuddhadvaita Saivam, Paramashivoham, The Eternal Bliss, Nithyananda. Thank you. Be blissful.
And (c) 2018 Sri Nithyananda Swami. All Rights Reserved.
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