MSS CEP - Biology of Guru-disciple relationship - Courage to open up to Guru

I welcome you all with my love and respects. I welcome all the devotees, disciples, samajis, satsangis, Sri Mahants, Mahants, everyone sitting with us all over the world, MSS graduates, Inner Awakening graduates, Nithya Kriya Yoga participants sitting in Adi Kailaasa, and all the Nithya Kriya Yoga participants sitting all over the world at this time through two-way video conferencing having Nayana Deeksha. I welcome all of you with my love and respects.

I’ll try to share some of the essential sacred secrets. The highest truths is what I call essential. When I say essential I am not saying leaving something and taking out the juice and giving you. No! When I say essential I mean highest important. The highest important is what I call essential, not just taking some juice and leaving some part. No. Juice is always juice, never equivalent to real fruit. But the essential is seed of the fruit, not the juice of the fruit. When I say essential I mean the seed, not juice. Some of the most important sacred secrets, sacred truths of the spiritual alchemy related to biology of Guru-disciple relationship. Especially today with Arunagiri Yogishwara gracing all of us here. Today we went and spend a little time in the Sacred Arts where the gurukul balasanths are getting trained in Mallakambha, Shivastambha. We’re going for various competitions. I was describing some of the things about Arunagiri Yogishwara and the biology of Guru-disciple relationship. I’ll try to share that with all of you.

Physics part of the Guru-disciple relationship is like, living in his breathing space. The chemistry part, tuning into the powerful cognitions he shares. One of the biggest problem the biology part is such sacred and secret, it is such an important component of power manifestation science - literally working on your very system and detoxifying you and making you manifest the highest possibility. You see, as long as we’re justs teaching, people are very happy, nobody feels threatened. But the moment the experience, the powerful cognitions become powers, starts manifesting - every other person feels powerless other than the disciple and Guru who manifest the powers. Understand! Understand! In front of rich always others feel very poor. If you are millionaire, in front of a billionaire you forget you are a millionaire - you feel like you’re dirt! That is the funny game of mind. In front of a person who has only few hundred thousand dollar, if you’re a millionaire, you feel you’re a rich guy. In front of a billionaire, it is not that you feel you’re a middle class rich guy, you just feel you’re a dirt! That’s the way mind works.

Same way, understand when somebody is manifesting powers, especially like us group of people manifesting powers. Shhh…! The kind of a attraction and attention you get. You get real seekers gets attracted to you. Pokers attention also you get along with seekers, that is where the whole problem is. And pokers cannot handle… see, they cannot do what you do to manifest powers. Tsk! They cannot, they are not interested in power manifestation. These dogs I have seen, these atheist donkeys they’ll come and tell, “Eh! What is there? Tell him to appear in front of me!” Why should he appear in front of you? He’s not the street side prostitute, \>\>\>Tamil\<\<\< He has his own dignity! Why should he appear in front of you?! Stupid fellows! They cannot do what they should do to have darshan of God, they will challenge! The pokers! I think today’s satsang “super hit” it’s the one word in Tamil I uttered. I know, this word is going to be a “super hit” word, I know. But what to do? The truth need to be told very straight!

See, these guys may not be interested in doing what need to be done for power manifestation but they’ll go on be poking, “Ah! If you can do then tell him to initiate me, let me also do!” Why should I give you? Why should I give you?! I don’t need to give you powers to make you believe I am something great. I am not interested in you believing me! Powers are the gift given to people who merge into the powerfulness out of love. It’s for seekers, not for pokers. It is like when you say, “Oh, we got the milk from the cow.” “Ahh! How can this milk come out of cow? Let me go and see!” You take a nail and poke. You are not going to get milk by poking the cow with the nail! You may get blood! Milk is given for the people who asked with the tremendous love. Pokers may get blood but not milk. Because it’s a different science.

Understand, to understand the biology of this whole science, the Guru-disciple relationship - tremendous preparation is required. Because the science is so sweet, personal, beautiful, amazing, ultimate - only who tasted can understand. Who tasted can understand. Even the deity worship, only if you had a pet, you’ll understand other’s emotional attachment towards their pet. Your only pet is whisky bottle, never tasted anything sweet and light in your life other than alcohol. Then what will you understand the sweet sentiment people carry with their pets? “Ahh! For the dog, why are they wasting so much money? I can get quarter.” Only if you had a pet, you can understand other’s emotions, sentiments, attachment towards their pet, till then you cannot understand. Same way, only if you know the intimacy of the puja - Aanmartha Puja, you can understand other’s connection with Aanmartha Puja. Otherwise you can never understand. A man who has understood the sacredness of personal spiritual sentiments will respect all traditions. That is why Hinduism by nature respects all traditions. By essence we respect all traditions. By nature we respect all traditions. If you see me in front of Jagannatha or Vishwanatha, you’ll, you’ll see I am same. How I melt in front of Vishwanatha, I melt the same way in front of Jagannatha. You see me in front of Arunachala or Ranganatha, it will be same. It’s not that it’ll be little less in front of Ranganatha. Once you know melting, you know melting is God. You melt in God - melting!

Understand, the most intimate, most personal secret chambers of your heart opens up and manifest the best sacred life. You see, in your most secret chambers of your heart when it opens up, it doesn’t only release experience, it releases powers! It manifest in you life! It’s neither prose nor poetry. It carries life. Prose has depth. Poetry has wings. Prose has roots. Poetry has wings. But both of them are half without the other. Poetry has no grounding. Prose has no wings. Prose cannot fly. Poetry cannot go into the ground. When you try to find roots, poetry is no more a poetry. You can’t take off with prose. You can’t land with poetry. The most sacred secret chamber of your heart is neither prose nor poetry, it is sacred. It is sacred because it manifest life. Even once if it is touched, your whole life becomes different - it manifest life.

That innermost secret chamber of your heart is biology of your Consciousness. It is like a source from which you identify your “I.” The source from which you wake up and try to collect the broken pieces of you and try to fit it. I’ve seen when I was a kid, my cousin brothers and sisters will try to play dismantling and assembling the clock. In those days we used to play with the real items, not just gadgets. One of the biggest thing this modern day kids lost is playing with real items. Now it is all only gadgets. They becomes so surber. Their creativity and life is completely lost. It’s not that all the kids will be successful in assembling them back. So I had one cousin brother who’ll always do this. He will dismantle, cannot put it back like Abhimanyu - can go in but cannot come out. So whenever he approached and asked friends that some clock is not working, give me, I’ll repair and give. I’ll tell them give one carry bag also, because when he’s giving back, he has to give back in carry bag only. He will dismantle, cannot put it back, so you’ll have to give a carry bag to take it back.

Same way, every night you become pieces. Morning when you wake up, you try to just assemble yourself and fit. And suddenly you see all the inspiration you had till yesterday night is missing. Some of the most powerful cognitions you developed after thinking, thinking, thinking for seven hours is suddenly missing! “Oh God! I found solution for this problem almost spending seven hours!” Reading books, listening to satsang, Jivartha Sadas, Vakyartha Sadas and what not! And today morning, suddenly it’s missing. Understand, the ground on which you drop all your spare parts and try to to assemble them back, that ground is your biology. Listen! Your mana, chitta, buddhi, ahankara, karmendriya, jnanendriya - all these is not tied together, integrated by your will during your dream and deep sleep state. If you have a high integrity, the moment you wake up, all of them are put together and you have a full clock back. But if your integrity is lose, even you do not know which part should be put in which area. You do not know to fit it! You do not know what to do! You do not know how you can function!

She is the only one can scream in my satsang and puts smile in my face! See, if anybody else who utter what will happen by now? Actually this is one of the nice lesson you can learn. If you have the ultimate integrity with Master, any tantrum you throw he enjoys it. The integrity in the level of biology, any tantrum you throw in the level of chemistry or physics doesn’t matter.

Understand, the innermost core part of you in which your spare parts rest, when you come back on the ground on which you try to assemble them is your biology. I’ll repeat once more. Your core parts are your mind, memory, decision making, buddhi. Memory is like a archives. Mind is like a… in all houses one old mummy will be there - who’ll be the big nuisance and who will be used by everyone to achieve what they want in the family. And this mummy’s only job is asking everyone when are you going to get married? When is your marriage? \>\>\>Tamil\<\<\< Every house will have one mummy. \>\>\>Tamil\<\<\< it means you’re married one and half years over still no kid? These are the shakers and movers. These mummies are the shakers and movers of our community in village. The peer pressure of those mummies only people get married, people give birth to kids, and you don’t have the freedom for, to decide when you can get married or whom you can get married or when you can give birth. No! No! No! No! It is all the system and those mummies are the shakers and movers. Every village will have those few mummies.

Actually the whole psyche of the Bharatn media is exaggerated version of those mummies. No, really! The exaggerated version of those mummies is the psyche of the Bharatn media. The most unconsciously corrupted media is Bharatn media. It is not that they’re intelligent and cunning enough that they are corrupted. No! Unconsciously corrupted! They do not even know why they’re so corrupt! If you ask dowry, two days they’ll talk about it. If you don’t get any dowry, “Oh! Useless fellow that is why he did not get anything.” They’ll talk about it. “He did not even get dowry, how that, how do you think the girl is going to live there? Tsk! Tsk!”

Movers and shakers of the Bharatn village is these mummies. Mummies does not mean in the Brahmin community - in all community, in all family households one lady will be there, who constantly every village or every ceremony, every festival she’ll be in the front demanding answers from everyone about the most personal questions. In Bharat you don’t need to become friendly to ask personal questions. If somebody is just in front of you, you can directly ask, “Ahh! \>\>\>Tamil\<\<\< you don’t need to become friendly to ask a personal questions in Bharat. Now in the west and all, you’ll even be afraid to ask how many kids you have. Nobody will ask personal questions unless you become friendly. In Bharat, you can get personal without becoming friendly or without getting acquainted. The second question will be straight! First question will be what’s your name? The second question will be straight, \>\>\>Tamil\<\<\< If you tasted these mummies then you know what I am talking. That’s the precise psyche of Bharatn media.

Understand, your memory, your own personal version of shaker and mover mummy is your mind. Means, which will not let you rest in peace. There’s a component of you inside you sitting very strongly and hitting you very strongly. It means what? Sitting and hitting. Add both the words. Sitting and hitting - that is your mind. There is one part of you, whether you are poor or you are rich, you are healthy or you are sick, you are happy or you are free or you are bound or you are in pain, where whatever you may be, will not let you rest or feel at ease or Oneness - that component is call mind. This is the most precise definition about mind I’ve given forever!

Mana is opposite of nama. Nama means not mind - namaha. Mana means “me!” “me!” “me!” - nothing else. Opposite of nama - mana. All your core components mana, chitta, buddhi, ahankara, karmendriya and jnanendriya - these core parts every day gets dismantled during your dream and deep sleep, and you assemble them back when you wake up. The rope with which you tie is integrity. That is why I say integrity is not mental quality, it actually even forms a grove, subtle grove in your brain, it can be measurable clearly through MRI and scans. It is physically measurable! Habit of integrity, practise of integrity puts your core components, core parts back together the moment you wake up! If the integrity thread is too thin, you can’t put all your parts together and tie. That is why they continue to function in different direction. When you decide you can’t put them together and tie, that is what I call life of depression. Morning when you wake up, using the strong integrity thread and tying all of them together is what is Sandhyavandanam. We’ve done many vandanam to Sandhya, but not Sandhyavandanam. Sandhya \>\>\>Tamil\<\<\<

Understand, people claimed Hinduism cannot be destroyed. No, they are liars! Hundred years before all the chatur varnas used to do Sandhyavandanam. Read the puranas! Guga supposed to be Shudra does Sandhyavandana everyday! When Rama comes, the scene is described - Guga was doing Sandhyavandana! All the four varnas used to do Sandhyavandana other than the sanyasis. Sanyas - once they take sanyas, they’re not suppose to do Sandhyavandana. They’re not suppose to do any of the Nithya Karmas.

Before the cultural genocide happened in Tamil Nadu - please understand, you guys talk about the Kashmiri Shaivites genocide, you are not talking about Adi Shaivite genocide happen very cunningly, very silently in Tamil Nadu. The Kashmiri Shaivite genocide was by Muslim. They were very open, brutal like a Virodhis that is why it got attention of everyone. But Adi Shaivite genocide in Tamil Nadu was by Christians - very systematic, cunning. That is why we don’t even know genocide has happened! Forty thousand temples do not have enough priests even to maintain one Kala Puja. All the temples are built for six Kala Puja. At those days for their population what was the Adi Shaiva strength? And now for this population what is the Adi Shaiva strength? Understand, it is nothing but genocide. It’s nothing but genocide! One fourth, twenty five percent population is suppose to be is reduced to three percent and still you are not waking up it is genocide. The healthy Hindu society was twenty five percent Brahmana, twenty five percent Kshatriya, twenty five percent Vaishya, twenty five percent Shudra. Now the twenty five percent which was suppose to be is reduced to three percent. And, you want to convince me that there was no genocide! Very powerful cunning genocide. The attack on Adi Shaivism was so cunning, systematic, planned. Understand.

Sixty years before, at least three varnas used to do Sandhya. Last two generations, forget about three varnas - even Brahmanas. Very comfortably I can say only ten percent of the born Brahmanas do Sandhyavandana. Less than ten percent, I don’t want to say more than ten percent. I want to say less than ten percent of the born Brahmanas only do Sandhyavandanam. At least forty percent of the Brahmanas will have this question very, “I know Sandhya. I know vandana. What is Sandhyavandana?” It’s no a joke, it’s reality. Understand! Any Brahmana ties his karanas, antahkaranas, the core component of him with the rope of integrity through Sandhya everyday - whatever words he utters will become reality. Destroy astrology so you can promote psychiatry. That’s what is going on. Destroy astrology, you can promote psychiatry! Astrologers use to be real life counsellors for us. Those days the Brahmanas, the temple priests will have high integrity and the knowledge of astrology, and they use to be the guides for people.

The space in you where the antahkaranas gets dismantled when you fall in dream and deep sleep and gets back, assembled back - that space is your biology. Understand. Where the logic of your bio memory is stored is biology. Everything has its own logy - cosmology, biology, zoology, geology other than wife. That is why there’s no wifology. That has no logy. Everything else other than wife has logy in the world. Logy of your bio memory is stored in your core space, that space is what I call biology of you. Any understanding happens there, any cognition happens there, any decision happens there - manifest as a life, not just as a knowledge or concept or a idea. No! It manifest as life!

First and foremost component of biology of the Guru-disciple relationship you need to understand. Listen carefully. First and foremost component of biology of Guru-disciple relationship you need to understand is not trust or Guru bhakti. No. Ability to open up. Understand, ability to open up does not need trust or love as a prerequisite. Sometime even because you are beaten up in the world so much you may open up! It is not necessarily needed to be out of trust or out of love or out of Guru bhakti. You see, if the opening up is added with the Guru bhakti, trust, whatever you received is nourished, cherished and it flourishes in your system. That is different. But, the Guru-disciple relationship to happen, flower in your biology - foremost important component is ability to open up. You just need to be straight about what you want then things can start happening. You don’t need Guru bhakti or trust, all that then you’ll open up - it’ll never happen. It’ll never happen. Ability to open up should be to the level of how you open up to your doctor about the symptoms you’re going through, because it is required for diagnosing the problem. It is required for diagnosing. Understand. If you do not open up, there is every possibility the diagnosis can go wrong. After that any medi, any treatment is useless if the diagnosis goes wrong.

Listen carefully, trust is not the foremost important component for the Guru-disciple relationship’s biology. Bhakti is not the foremost. Actually bhakti comes as a gratitude in the end, not in the beginning. In the beginning what you show is all just show. I don’t trust. I know. I’ve seen many people, “Ahh! Swamiji I’ll surrenders everything to you! Give me enlightenment.” “Okay, do meditation for three days.” “No, no! I have flight in next half and hour.” \>\>\>Tamil\<\<\< I have seen all kinds of comedy in the name of Guru bhakti and surrender. All types of comedy, cruel jokes. Cruel! Most cruel comedy. Most cruel jokes. “You are God, give me million dollar.” “Okay I am God so I know when to give also. Wait.” “No, no! If you give now, you are God! Otherwise \>\>\>inaudible\<\<\<” Then be very clear, it’s a negotiation argument statement. You are God is not the conclusion, it is negotiation prefix. Negotiation prefix.

Expecting trust or the devotion as the important component of Guru-disciple relationship biology is stupidity. And if I expect that as a prerequisite, I would not have come down to planet earth because I know it is not available. Foremost important component of biology of Guru-disciple relationship is ability to open up so that you will know, you will have the solution. It’s like how you give the doctor precise informations. You know about the symptoms you’re going through and the whatever you know - to that level with that mood, opening up. That is the most precise important step for diagnosing. Understand!

The first component dimension you need to understand the biology of Guru-disciple relationship is courage to open up. Tell the Master precisely what you want, where you’re stuck, whatever you know. Many time you may say you have problem in the stomach and doctor may not attend to your stomach. He may start attending your head. And if you have headache, he may not attend to your head, he may attend, he may silence your wife. So you don’t bother about what response he’s going to give - whatever you know precisely opening it up. Then he knows how to diagnose. Symptoms are cause of disease, symptom themself are not disease. So symptoms are not going to be attended, disease is going to be attended. Symptoms come from the disease. Symptoms themself are not disease. So whatever symptoms you know, you should be able to precisely open up, so doctor can diagnose the disease, study the symptoms.

Essence of today’s session is - Courage to open up to the Guru. Put this as your status and whatever you wanted to share, tag it only to me. So let the post not become public post. Tag it! I’ll respond as early as possible and support, make the biology of the Guru-disciple relationship happen in everyone of you.

So with this I bless you all. Let’s all radiate with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching, Causing, Living Shuddhadvaita Saivam, Mahasadashivoham, The Eternal Bliss, Nithyananda. Thank you. Be blissful.

And (c) 2019 Sri Nithyananda Swami. All Rights Reserved.

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