“The next step goes on around the age of twenty eight, twenty one the…”

The next step goes on around the age of twenty eight, twenty one the next step is twenty eight. Around the age of twenty eight almost we will come upon the conclusion that the imagine, imaginations can never become reality nothing can work out, but of the aa, when you come, when you try to come to the conclusion suddenly one day somewhere at some time some point of time you see somebody from a long distance a long distance when you see you think suddenly you think yes there is a possibility there may be a possibility from long distance you can see anything you want to see.

You can look anything you want to look, there is no need that it should be a reality, because you are continuously expecting for a long time you are continuously again, and again, and again, imagining, imagining, imagining recollecting the same memories for seven years. you suddenly project and see yes! here is a person whom I want to see whom I was searching to meet there is a right person for her only I am waiting for her.

All the imaginations, you just project outside and see what you want to see, and then you compare yes green, green things become greenery. You think the things have become greenery, what happens at that moment is what is called falling in love. You see, understand the word very clearly, falling in love never raising in love.

The very word says falling, falling means just dropping, falling in love not raising in love that is what we call this is the science of falling in love. If you understand very clearly this science will help you tremendously, this is the circuit how we fall in love so we suddenly feel the things have become greenery roses are more rosy grass is more green and somes music is more audible. Life becomes a poetry sort of a poetry at least so we fall in love.

After falling in love as long as you maintain the distance enough distance if you meet only one hour a day or once in a while no problem arises things goes smoothly, and everything goes as you write in poetry, and nothing disturbs you. See one hour you can project your imagination on her, and see, and she can project her imaginations on you, and see in one hour there will be no need to break the others imaginations.

One hour you can act as a good person, one hour you can manage with a mask, one hour is not too much time to manage with a mask, one hour you can not be a victim so this is the time when you write poetries, when you do paintings, when you write letters, all this things happen. This is the time when you completely with full swing you project your dreams that it has become a reality it has come to life you feel that what you have imagined is not a wastage it has come to a reality, God has done something grateful to you by creating a person as you wanted all these great things happen in your life in your mind.

You feel that you are not walking on the earth, everything happens, when that one hour becomes two hour as long as it is only one hour per day no problem arises things goes smoothly beautifully, when that one hour becomes two hour then somewhere slowly a small scratch small rubbing then immediately we think no, no life will be like that we need to,we also need to adjust a little.

When this word arises the first step, when the two hours become four hours I thought its a green, not green, its yellow, alright life means like this only we can not get always get what we wanted let us adjust you come to the next step let us adjust so when the four hours becomes six hour little more slowly you understand it may not be yellow, pale yellow ok we’re also not perfect so naturally we will get this types of persons only we should put up life means like that only. All this words you bring it just as a buffer. You see you can not face the reality directly.

So you bring buffers inside the - in the car there's a buffer system you know the shocks of the roads are that, are not directly transferred to you there's a buffer system, the cushion system which takes care of the shocks, and you are led to be comfortable just like that you can not live with the reality. You can not say to yourself your imagination is lie and the reality is different, no, you can not say that you keep a buffers, buffer means these are the consoling words.

See life means this only at this point I am also not perfect how can I expect the perfection all this words are the buffers which you use, when the six seven hours become ten hours you understand, this is green and this is white a pure white here ends honeymoon again that word is a beautiful word you see mark never honey sun. Moon means how long it will be how long your moon will stand, how long you can see a moon sixteen days, sixteen days, so the experience also for sixteen days you - have you heard the word honey sun?

No. It is always honeymoon never the honeysun because you are projecting your imaginations you are projecting your dreams how long you can play with your dreams? See can you eat your dreams and live without hunger? You can eat food and live without hunger that is ok but how can, how long can postpone your hunger by eating dreams? No.

By cherishing dreams you can not quench your thirst. You can not quench your hunger. You need to look at the reality, you - you made to face that reality. How many masks you may wear, how many glasses you may wear, how many ways you can hide today, or tomorrow you have to understand, you have to see the reality. Once the honeymoon ends, few people understand the imagination cannot become reality. Even then some people don’t understand.

So now you, few people understand yes at least in this point if you understand that your dreams cannot become true your imaginations cannot come into reality, A small story. One man asked, one man went to his friends wedding and presented a puppy, presented a pet dog. After three months the friend went and asked his friend how is your married life? How things are going on? What is the difference you find? How about your life all? this questions he asked. The friend who got married he replied, see three months ago you gave me a puppy at that time your puppy used to bark at me, and my wife used to bring newspaper for me. Now, early morning your puppy brings newspaper my wife barks at me. Just a small change nothing much just the beauty is changed three months ago he brings newspaper, she brings newspaper, and he barks. Now its just small change nothing else.

because it is your imaginations it is not the reality.

Reality is totally different. Imaginations are totally different, then tension starts. The gap between the reality and the imagination is what is called tension. Almost all our tension all the tension which exists in our life in our house if you see this will be the cause, gap between the imaginary life and the real life.

This gap is what is called tension nothing else. So there are few people who don’t even don’t understand the fact that dreams can never become reality even at this point they go to the next step what is the next step they start chiseling the other. Starting - start chiseling the other. You have one image about her, she has got one image about you. You take the chisel and hammer in your hand you start chiseling her and she takes one more chisel and hammer and she starts chiseling you if it is a stone you can chisel and make a idol and keep where you want.

If its a wood you can make a furniture and keep where you want but can you chisel can you mold a live person but we are not ready to understand it we are not ready to understand that. We stubborn in chiseling the other what happens when you chisel if you chisel a live being what will come out only blood that's all nothing else. That is what is happening in our houses in our lives, Dharmakshetra becomes Kurukshetra. Which is supposed to Dharmakshetra becomes Gurukshetra.

Of course, if you have a small understanding that your dreams cannot become real your houses will be maintained as Dharmakshetra if that one understanding is taken out. If you don't have that one understanding the same Dharmakshetra becomes Kurukshetra. If you feel homely at your house, you're living in a home if you feel lonely at your home your living in a house. House can be built by brick, motar, stone, any contractor will do.

Any contractor will do, call a contractor he will build a house. A contract is enough to build a house, but to build a home a contact is necessary, never a contract, contact is necessary. We never live with the real person. We continuously live with our own imaginations. That is the reason we don’t look into eachothers eyes it is very rare to have a eye contact, having eye contact.

If you have eye contact continuously with the persons with whom you are living can be sure you're living with persons, if you don't have the eye contacts be very clear you are living with imaginations, you are not really living with the real persons then, if you don't understand even after this point you can never make your dreams into reality, you can never make your dreams into a real person till end you will be having a chisel, and hammer in your hands.

Chisel and hammer will be the emblem of your life nothing else will be the emblem of your life instead of mangalsutra you’ll be having chisel, and hammer in your hand. Chisel and hammer will become a lifestyle I again, and again insist tell the people if you want to live, if you want to have a life first thing drop the chisel and hammer.

Dropping the chisel and hammer is the first step towards the life then you’ll be able to drop the next step you can drop the root of the chisel and hammer. What is the root of the chisel and hammer? Imaginations. Your own projections not only in the zone of wife or husbands even in the zone of daughter in the zone of son the zone of brother the zone of relatives.

All the zones we have our own imaginations, we have our own projections which we force pressurize on the other, and he's pressurizing his pressure and you Everybody has got a mold in their hand as soon as they see you they just press that mold on you and take out and he's having a mold in his hand, you are having a mold on your hand. Both of you are trying to press their molds on the other how can you live the life if you continuously project your dreams on the other, your desires on the others.