Completion with Self Hatred
…vande guru paramparam |
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“That’s it!”
I welcome all of you with My love and respects. I welcome all the devotees have gathered in Jorpati-Nepal. I welcome all of you with My love and blessings.
I am so happy all of you are gathered in Nepal. My blessings to all of you. Today we will have Kalpataru in Nepal.
I will start expanding on Kalpataru continuously.
“Yes! Great!”
We will start the Kalpataru Darshan and the… I will expand on the Kalpataru process.
Please listen, usually, end of the Satsang, I give the essence of the Satsang but today I am going to make the statement now and go on expanding, go on expanding, this one statement.
“All the incompletions of the planet Earth starts with violence towards you and others. All the Completions of the planet Earth, happens with love towards you and others”.
Please listen, I will expand on it but now what I am saying is like a Shloka… Sutra.
All the incompletions starts with hatred towards you and others. All the Completions starts with loving you and others. All bad things in the cosmos starts with hating you and others. All the good things starts with loving you and others.
Please listen and it is not a simple statement and I also don’t expect… I am not that insensitive that I expect you should understand this statement immediately.
Please listen, step by step, only when you start completing with all the hatred you have towards others and the outside things…
As I said two-three days before, the hatred towards others and other things has no justification, no justification. You can not justify it. You can’t use any justification because that person is black and white or green or yellow, or north Bharatn, south Bharatn, westerner, easterner, you can’t even use religion as a justification for your hatred.
Please understand, nothing, nothing can be used as a justification for your hatred. You have to complete with every hatred you have towards the outer world whether it is hatred towards a person or hatred towards a animal.
Sometime we may not be afraid of snake but we will be… we will hate that creepy effect of that cockroach. I have seen people who are not even afraid of snakes, will be afraid of that hate… it is not even a fear kind of hatred they will have towards that creepy effect of cockroach.
Whether it is a human being, or a building, or an object, or a cockroach, whatever, the hatred can not be justified. Hatred can not be justified. No question of hatred. It has to be completed.
Only when you complete all the hatred, anger, violence you carry with outside, you realize everything boils down to self-hatred.
Please understand, discovering this experientially, discovering this experientially…
Please understand, all of you need to know I am not teaching any morality, \<Audio is cutoff 08:52\> My relationship, My idea with… with non-violence is completely separate. I am not teaching non-violence here as a morality, please understand. First of all, I don’t teach the so-called moralities.
I am a guy who is completely grounded on Advaita experience. I have that Advaitic experience and I am sincere to the Advaitic experience. I am not married to anybody else, understand. I don’t have a respect or affiliation to anything else other than Advaita. I don’t care about any of your other rules, regulations, laws, understandings.
So be very clear, understand the context from which I am talking about non-violence. You need to know the context.
See, there was a great devotee called Baneshwar Shiv… Baneshwara.
He asks Mahadeva, “Mahadeva, you have to give whatever boons people ask. Give me this boon”.
Then Mahadeva says, “Whoever knows this that whatever boon they ask I give. For them I will give”.
Please understand, he puts a very small twist. He says, “Tathastu, so be it” to Baneshwara.
Sorry his name is Banasura. The Shiva worshipped by him is become Baneshwara; Banasura.
Banasura asks Mahadeva, “Mahadeva, whoever ask whatever boon you should give”.
Mahadeva puts a small twist and says, “Whoever knows whatever they ask, I give. For them, I give”.
I am not trying to promote non-violence as any morality or this, that. I am neither far nor against any rules, regulations, morality, it is all up to them but I am very clear I am married to Advaita, the truth of Advaita and I am sincere to that truth, that experience.
“नित्यं अद्वितीयम् निरञ्जनं”
“nityam advitīyam nirañjanam”
Eternally being in the Space of Advaita and Nirañjana, purity.
Please listen, only when you complete with all the hatred you carry with the outer world, you wake up to the reality, it is nothing but the… all the hatred you have towards the outer world is the extension of the hatred you carry inside, the hatred towards you.
If you are… for example, if you hate easterners or westerners, only if you complete, complete, complete and completed that hatred, you will understand it is nothing but one part of you, you are hating, you are projecting it on others.
I am not talking it as a philosophy. I am talking this as everyday strategy planning. The day to day strategies for your life, day to day strategies for your life.
See if I tell you, go to the corner of this street, there is a hotel where you can get your morning food, “Is it talking philosophy?”. Arey! It is a strategy for your morning breakfast, the basic need of your life.
Strategy for your breakfast is not philosophy so whatever I am talking, don’t push it aside as a philosophy to be realised when you are old, retired, tired.
When you don’t have anything else, you will just chew the pan and sit in the banks of Ganga in Varanasi and go-on be thinking, “Yes, I will be non-violent. Let me complete”.
No, don’t push Me aside as a philosopher. I am talking to you. I am giving you the strategy for your day to day eating and sleeping, for your clothes and shelter, for your breathing and being alive.
Realising, realising that everyone is extension of you is the first step for realizing everyone is you.
The first step for that realization happens non… with non-violence. Completion, Completion, Completion, Completion, Completion, Completion, Completion, Completion.
If you have fear of some higher authorities, your boss, your wife, your elder brother, your politicians, some robber or unknown fellows, complete with all those fears. Only when you complete with all those fears, you will understand it is pa… extension of you, parts of you, you are projecting it on others and seeing.
There are some people who can’t face Me, they are afraid. It means, one part of you, you are not able to face. Ability to face Kalabhairava is Enlightenment; understand. Ability to face Kalabhairava means lord of time who has all the archives of all your strategies and plans.
How many layer by layer by layers and layers and layers of hypocrisy and secrecy you build and justify it, “Oy! He is hypocrite, that is why I am hypocrite. He is cunning, that is why I am cunning. He is cheating me that is why I am cheating him. He is cheating her, that is why I am cheating him”.
You can have layers and layers of all this cunningness. He knows, he cheating somebody has no justification for you cheating him because when you cheating him, you are only cheating the part of you.
For you to become Dharmic, whole world does not need to become Dharmic. Forever in the world, there will be some Adharmic people. If you are waiting for the whole world will become Dharmic, only then I will become Dharmic, you will be like Duryodhana or if you think whether the whole world becomes Dharmic or not, I will become Dharmic and then I will become the example, so that whoever wants, let them follow.
So understand, when you face Kalabhairava, your justifications, why you are inauthentic, why you are insincere, why you are no… non integrated. Those reasons are not going to be asked at all.
Kalabhairava does not listen to reasons. He doesn’t listen to any reasonings. No, ability to face Kalabhairava means ability to face yourself, ability to face yourself.
You get the ability to face yourself only when you complete with all the non-violence you carry, that is the first thing you need to do.
Details
The talk
- Date
- 1 February 2014
- Place
- \<Unknown\>
- Type
- Nithya Satsang
- Language
- English
The recording
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- Published
- 13 November 2020
- Duration
- 20 min
The transcript
- Status
- Verified
- Time-synced
- Yes — 14 marks
- Length
- 1,543 words · 9 min read
- Topics
- None recorded