“Why Are We Stressed Out With Decision Making?”

Why Are We Stressed Out With Decision Making?

But if you’re filled with engrams, too much of samskaras, too much of engraved memories. Even two, three decisions, you’ll be completely tired. Sometime you can see, you don’t even have to work, just sit in your chair, simply think. In half an hour, you’ll have the shoulder pain. Just think, nothing else. If simple thinking can create shoulder pain, means, you’re caught in the engrams. You’re caught, you’re suffering with the samskaras, with the engraved memories. The engraved memories doesn’t allow you to take the decision. It’s like a file is moving from eye to mind: when it takes the quantum leap, each engram is writing its opinion on that file. The more the number of engrams, more the, more decisions, so by the time the file reaches the ego, ego is completely confused, because 300 opinions are there on that file.

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If 300 opinions are there on that file, how will you decide what decision you can make? You’re completely confused. Your ego says, “just do whatever you want. Leave it. Leave me.” You don’t have enough patience or energy to make decision. Then decisions are taken in a very haphazard way. Decisions are taken without any clarity. If you are continuously deciding without any clarity, unfortunately if you are in the leader’s seat, be very clear, not only you’ll be suffering, you’ll be torturing others also.

And every one of you are leaders some way. Whether you are leading the, leading your team, or you are leading the house, your house, or leading your friends—some way, continuously you are doing the job of leading. Somewhere or other, sometime you are led, sometime you are leading, but every one of us are leaders in some part of our life. Maybe you’ll be a leader in social life, or maybe you will be leader in your office, or you’ll be leader in your house, but you will be leader at some point of, some point or other we are leaders.

Person who is caught by these engrams, person who is continuously suffering by these engraved memories, can never relax, can never have vacation, can never relax. You can see in your life, if you’re, the moment, early morning, the moment you get up from your bed and go to the bathroom, you are brushing the teeth, your mind is already in the office, thinking about the office. If you are sitting in the office, your mind is already on the beach, evening beach. “When we’ll go to the beach and relax?” If you are sitting in the beach and relaxing, your mind is already in the house. “When can I go back, It is time. I think I should go back.” One thing is sure, if you are here, you are not here. You don’t stay in the place where you, where your body is. You are constantly somewhere else.

I always tell people, if you are sitting in the house and worrying, it’s working from home; if you are sitting in the office and worrying, you are doing your job. If you are sitting in the beach and worrying, you are having vacation, that’s all. Maybe the places are different, but the mental setup is same. Person who is filled with this engrams can never have vacation. He can neither have vacation nor live his life completely. Vacation or living, living or leaving—both are directly related to your consciousness. It is not related to what you are doing, it is related to your being.

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